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31 Oct 2013, 4:58 pm

It mystifies, or should I say, angers me that some people on WP just don't accept the fact that some of us on the spectrum have communication deficits. It's actually part of the diagnosis, but the Aspie Police always has to show up and ruin other people's parties. I can't stand it. It's like they stand in the shadows waiting for someone to say something that could possibly offend then suddenly pounce on them like a jaguar in the night. To me, they ruin it for everyone. Just their presence alone makes me cringe. I hope you're not leaving on account of these people. The problems they're having is theirs, not yours. You're okay.

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31 Oct 2013, 8:39 pm

Toy_Soldier wrote:

Its never too late to make changes or try to make ammends. You just have to be mature enough to know some things can not be undone and accept that. But there are people 10-20 years older then you still struggling with maturity. For some of us it is a very long process. Realizing there is a problem is actually a very good sign & not the time to quit, but instead the time to start your turn.

Well I notice I am alot more mature when I am depressed so perhaps ill let depression takeover.

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31 Oct 2013, 9:17 pm

Meh, maturity is overrated. :jester:

Introspection and growth are good things, but so is spirit and having a little fun. It's impossible not to disappoint every person in some way, so think more about what brings joy to you. It's a tough one, but you can do it.

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31 Oct 2013, 9:35 pm

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31 Oct 2013, 9:42 pm

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31 Oct 2013, 10:56 pm

I'm sorry you are feeling so down Aspieotaku. If it makes you feel any better, I really appreciated that one time, when you posted the video of the thick asian gal holding a banana:)

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31 Oct 2013, 11:42 pm

I am a disgrace from the start, I always mess things up and wonder why I wasnt aborted.

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01 Nov 2013, 6:53 am

If you are unwilling or unable to change, leaving is the best choice then. A mature thing to do actually.

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01 Nov 2013, 10:23 am

MjrMajorMajor wrote:

Meh, maturity is overrated. :jester:

Introspection and growth are good things, but so is spirit and having a little fun. It's impossible not to disappoint every person in some way, so think more about what brings joy to you. It's a tough one, but you can do it.

I suppose your right I thought about it over night that maybe I have been over reacting, so I might reconsider about leaving and come to my senses, I do enjoy making people laugh but i need to be careful how I do it sometimes. I also do get extremely harsh on myself. Not every leaf blows in the same direction upon wind gusts.

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01 Nov 2013, 2:35 pm

:wtg:

Glad you're feeling better.

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01 Nov 2013, 4:39 pm

MjrMajorMajor wrote:

Glad you're feeling better.

Yes! and thank you I have decided to stay! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJ6A6GC_ki4[/youtube]

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02 Nov 2013, 2:46 am

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For the record, you have never offended me. I read this post on purpose because it was from you.

Same here.

Someone who offends no one, has no opinions. It's impossible to please everybody.... simply impossible.

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02 Nov 2013, 7:50 am

Beauty_pact wrote:

Mindsigh wrote:

For the record, you have never offended me. I read this post on purpose because it was from you.

Same here.

Someone who offends no one, has no opinions. It's impossible to please everybody.... simply impossible.

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02 Nov 2013, 8:34 am

You've never wasted my time and I've found good insights in your posts. Take a break if you need to, I'm hoping you return.

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07 Nov 2013, 2:52 pm

*hugs* AspieOtaku, you and I share the same struggles. If you leave, I'm going to miss ya. Take all the time you need (like I did) to calm and cool down. Cheers.

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