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Halfmadgenius
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30 May 2014, 2:58 am

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hmm. I too Have always wanted to have kids and a family. I don't see it other happening, so its sad to see everyone with their kids.

You could always find a guy to have sex for kids, though I imagine most would be afraid of child support and such. an ideal though.


If I could stand being touched by strangers and not afraid of diseases. I am terrified of HIV. The idea of herpes scares me to.



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30 May 2014, 6:40 pm

Halfmadgenius are you from Tennessee? I thought I remember you saying that but I wasn't sure. I saw your picture and you are very attractive. I think you will find the right guy eventually. Are there any singles clubs in your area?



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31 May 2014, 12:13 am

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Halfmadgenius are you from Tennessee? I thought I remember you saying that but I wasn't sure. I saw your picture and you are very attractive. I think you will find the right guy eventually. Are there any singles clubs in your area?


No, I am from north Georgia, but I am less than 30 miles from Chattanooga Tennessee. Right below the state line. No, there are no clubs, and I hate the bar, meltdown central. The noise, the smoke, people, flashing lights....

Add to that vulgar, disrespectful drunks. Eww. Plus guys at bars are just looking for a one night stand, and I am looking for the rest of my life.



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31 May 2014, 12:38 am

hugs?



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31 May 2014, 4:13 am

Halfmadgenius wrote:
sly279 wrote:
hmm. I too Have always wanted to have kids and a family. I don't see it other happening, so its sad to see everyone with their kids.

You could always find a guy to have sex for kids, though I imagine most would be afraid of child support and such. an ideal though.


If I could stand being touched by strangers and not afraid of diseases. I am terrified of HIV. The idea of herpes scares me to.


I can touch strange women who I've talked to apparently. I don't understand it myself. I guess its just my desire to be touch not being fulfilled building up.
I get the fear of stds, I had anxiety for 2 months before I finally went and got tested, and I'm getting hpv shots even though i'll likely never have sex again.
I n the pregnancy situation i would mean like fwb, so you two would know and trust each other. I don't mean you should do it but an option.

as a guy I don't even have that option :'( and as a single guy even if i was wealthy I don't see anyone letting me adopt, china certainly only adopts to couple.

still plenty of women have healthy kids in their 30s and early 40s
sadly you're too far away to consider dating :P not that I'm a good mate anyways.



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31 May 2014, 2:20 pm

I think that single people can adopt, but adoption is really expensive. Maybe I will consider trying it once I have saved up some money. I would rather have a relationship though so I may try to get one of those for a few more years.