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16 Aug 2014, 9:00 pm

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only option that was given would cost too much :(

you have got to make them know that.

Who as more then one person is dealing with this?

ALL parties. repeatedly until it sinks into their collective thick skulls.

Need a final desion on funding etc :(



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16 Aug 2014, 9:05 pm

mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
only option that was given would cost too much :(

you have got to make them know that.

Who as more then one person is dealing with this?

ALL parties. repeatedly until it sinks into their collective thick skulls.

Need a final desion on funding etc :(

all the more reason to remind them, especially by showing them receipts of how much [or little] income you have.



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16 Aug 2014, 9:15 pm

auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
only option that was given would cost too much :(

you have got to make them know that.

Who as more then one person is dealing with this?

ALL parties. repeatedly until it sinks into their collective thick skulls.

Need a final desion on funding etc :(

all the more reason to remind them, especially by showing them receipts of how much [or little] income you have.

I don't have income at the moment as they are sorting most of it.
I live in a autism childens home.



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16 Aug 2014, 9:26 pm

mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
only option that was given would cost too much :(

you have got to make them know that.

Who as more then one person is dealing with this?

ALL parties. repeatedly until it sinks into their collective thick skulls.

Need a final desion on funding etc :(

all the more reason to remind them, especially by showing them receipts of how much [or little] income you have.

I don't have income at the moment as they are sorting most of it.
I live in a autism childens home.

well then something ain't clicking with those people if they are not aware of your inability to afford their proposed housing for you.



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16 Aug 2014, 9:28 pm

auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
only option that was given would cost too much :(

you have got to make them know that.

Who as more then one person is dealing with this?

ALL parties. repeatedly until it sinks into their collective thick skulls.

Need a final desion on funding etc :(

all the more reason to remind them, especially by showing them receipts of how much [or little] income you have.

I don't have income at the moment as they are sorting most of it.
I live in a autism childens home.

well then something ain't clicking with those people if they are not aware of your inability to afford their proposed housing for you.

They know that i don't have any income.
And the idea of funding proposed would not cover that.



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16 Aug 2014, 9:29 pm

mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
only option that was given would cost too much :(

you have got to make them know that.

Who as more then one person is dealing with this?

ALL parties. repeatedly until it sinks into their collective thick skulls.

Need a final desion on funding etc :(

all the more reason to remind them, especially by showing them receipts of how much [or little] income you have.

I don't have income at the moment as they are sorting most of it.
I live in a autism childens home.

well then something ain't clicking with those people if they are not aware of your inability to afford their proposed housing for you.

They know that i don't have any income.
And the idea of funding proposed would not cover that.

ask them how they expect you to pay the full rent if they don't give you the amount of the full rent?



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16 Aug 2014, 9:44 pm

Pick the re feeling person you trust the most that's involved in this process and tell them you are feeling VERY anxious and need to discuss your concerns. If it would help, write them down ahead of time and go through them one by one with whomever is willing to sit down and discuss this with you. Keep in mind it's the weekend, so you may want to write out your concerns now and approach someone to review them on Monday



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17 Aug 2014, 6:30 pm

Nurse_Bill wrote:
Pick the re feeling person you trust the most that's involved in this process and tell them you are feeling VERY anxious and need to discuss your concerns. If it would help, write them down ahead of time and go through them one by one with whomever is willing to sit down and discuss this with you. Keep in mind it's the weekend, so you may want to write out your concerns now and approach someone to review them on Monday

Will not even get much on Monday due to limited time.



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17 Aug 2014, 6:34 pm

mmcool wrote:
Nurse_Bill wrote:
Pick the re feeling person you trust the most that's involved in this process and tell them you are feeling VERY anxious and need to discuss your concerns. If it would help, write them down ahead of time and go through them one by one with whomever is willing to sit down and discuss this with you. Keep in mind it's the weekend, so you may want to write out your concerns now and approach someone to review them on Monday

Will not even get much on Monday due to limited time.

concentrate on the most important thing.



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17 Aug 2014, 6:37 pm

auntblabby wrote:
mmcool wrote:
Nurse_Bill wrote:
Pick the re feeling person you trust the most that's involved in this process and tell them you are feeling VERY anxious and need to discuss your concerns. If it would help, write them down ahead of time and go through them one by one with whomever is willing to sit down and discuss this with you. Keep in mind it's the weekend, so you may want to write out your concerns now and approach someone to review them on Monday

Will not even get much on Monday due to limited time.

concentrate on the most important thing.

I'm just vary worried about not know what is going to happen and i'm felling worse by the day.



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17 Aug 2014, 7:21 pm

Listen to this great advice. They should know you live in an autism home. Just get your proof together. I could understand you feel anxious. Try to do something you're interested in.



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17 Aug 2014, 7:22 pm

the unknown is always the most scary thing and when it passes we often wonder what we were so worried about. :idea:



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17 Aug 2014, 7:30 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Listen to this great advice. They should know you live in an autism home. Just get your proof together. I could understand you feel anxious. Try to do something you're interested in.

they already have all this information.



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17 Aug 2014, 8:55 pm

You have to reinforce what they already have. They might lose the paperwork. I think it will be resolved pretty soon.



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18 Aug 2014, 9:37 am

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You have to reinforce what they already have. They might lose the paperwork. I think it will be resolved pretty soon.

This is a huge mess and alot of people are attacking a report i have not seen.



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18 Aug 2014, 3:41 pm

By the sounds of it they is going to be a meeting on Wednesday.