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03 Oct 2014, 7:14 am

I know but uhis woman is like beyond strange. I have seen with my own eyes her hitting one of her colleagues in front of customers, which I was always taught was unacceptable behaviour, and this poor colleague of hers hadn't even done anything to deserve that. She can be very eccentric too, and often rudely ignores people if shes in one of her moods. And I don't even want to get into how she treats men. I know her next door neighbour, one person other than me who does not like her a lot. And her next door neighbour told me that this woman had her new boyfriend round, and he hadn't been there a few hours and she kicked him out and sent him off to a hotel. Then a few weeks later they're back together again, then they're not, then they are, and she continues to treat him horribly but he still comes running to her. He has a very good paid job so you can tell she's only with him because he has money. Yet she gets so many men after her and wanting to date her, and she's a wrinkly old woman over 60, with a strange attitude about everything.

Ok I must admit I am a teeny bit jealous of her because she sounds like a stuck up, selfish, neurotic piece of work, but everyone still loves her. I know that if I behaved like that nobody would like me, and my boyfriend would probably leave me. I read up about witches, and it made me feel better when it described this woman as a witch. I always thought maybe she has a condition like an asd, but then I thought nah, she has too many people who talk to her to be able to have that. So maybe its something else...


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03 Oct 2014, 9:50 am

LabPet wrote:
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That's not a witch. My stepmom was a witch-- she could pray for something, and it would happen. She KNEW things. She wasn't Pagan-- if she was anything, she was Baptist. She was A WITCH.

What you're describing is a highly socially skilled narcissist. Nothing magical about it.


Never take candy from anyone like that.


I trusted Mom's candy absolutely. She made damn good chicken and dumplings, too. And let my kid eat ranch dressing from a bowl with a spoon.

The highly socially skilled narcissist?? No. Don't touch their candy. Or their KoolAid. As a matter of fact, get the hell away from them. They're DANGEROUS.

That's what she is. The "highly socially skilled" part means she knows how to deceive people, and how to make them feel great when she's getting her way. The "narcissist" part means that she treats them like dying dogshit when she feels that her image, her power, her control, her domination are threatened in any way or shape or form. The "highly socially skilled" part means that she can do that over, and over, and over, and most people are stupid enough to keep coming back for more.

My stepmom's sister is like that. My stepmom is one of the few people who can see through her...

...unfortunately, since her sister twisted arms to have her ruled incompetent to make decisions about her own life and her own care, Mom can't do anything about it.


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