Absolutely furious and need to calm down and deal smartly
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OliveOilMom wrote:
I'm not leaving him, and I do know he loves me, and trust me I'm not taking this lying down. Been there, done that with the first one. When he does something like this he goes though living hell for a good bit of time after. If you don't think I can make his life hell you really underestimate me and kinda upset me lol.
He does it because he's stupid about s**t like this. Because some other chick gives him the eye he thinks he needs to go after her. Don't worry, he's going to get his and she will get hers too.
He does it because he's stupid about s**t like this. Because some other chick gives him the eye he thinks he needs to go after her. Don't worry, he's going to get his and she will get hers too.
You will have plenty of time to make a plan when you feel calmer. Go for a walk, do something you love, maybe with your kids. It's hard not to act immediately, try to wait. He isn't worth making yourself crazy after he did this.
I'm sorry this happened, too.
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Waterfalls wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
I'm not leaving him, and I do know he loves me, and trust me I'm not taking this lying down. Been there, done that with the first one. When he does something like this he goes though living hell for a good bit of time after. If you don't think I can make his life hell you really underestimate me and kinda upset me lol.
He does it because he's stupid about s**t like this. Because some other chick gives him the eye he thinks he needs to go after her. Don't worry, he's going to get his and she will get hers too.
He does it because he's stupid about s**t like this. Because some other chick gives him the eye he thinks he needs to go after her. Don't worry, he's going to get his and she will get hers too.
You will have plenty of time to make a plan when you feel calmer. Go for a walk, do something you love, maybe with your kids. It's hard not to act immediately, try to wait. He isn't worth making yourself crazy after he did this.
I'm sorry this happened, too.
Thanks. I'm calm now though. Scary calm. I've got a plan too. It's gonna be just fine.
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OliveOilMom wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
I'm not leaving him, and I do know he loves me, and trust me I'm not taking this lying down. Been there, done that with the first one. When he does something like this he goes though living hell for a good bit of time after. If you don't think I can make his life hell you really underestimate me and kinda upset me lol.
He does it because he's stupid about s**t like this. Because some other chick gives him the eye he thinks he needs to go after her. Don't worry, he's going to get his and she will get hers too.
He does it because he's stupid about s**t like this. Because some other chick gives him the eye he thinks he needs to go after her. Don't worry, he's going to get his and she will get hers too.
You will have plenty of time to make a plan when you feel calmer. Go for a walk, do something you love, maybe with your kids. It's hard not to act immediately, try to wait. He isn't worth making yourself crazy after he did this.
I'm sorry this happened, too.
Thanks. I'm calm now though. Scary calm. I've got a plan too. It's gonna be just fine.
Good. Be careful, please. Since you love him and want to stay with him.....keep things so you can be happy again someday.
I am sorry this happened.
