why are people who look at porn considered evil?

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sly279
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02 Aug 2015, 9:05 pm

Skibz888 wrote:
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pron addction is spending all waking moments looking at porn or ignorign responsibilities to look at porn. I've never been addicted to anything.


Okay, then it should be no problem weaning yourself down to either completely stopping watching/using it or down to a moderate use which you could consider yourself comfortable with.

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because if you don't know a guy is a racist kkk that doens't change that you think racist kk people are evil.
so just because they don't' know doesn't change they think me and people like me are evil they only just don't know. so you live in fear of them finding out.


...or you could just stop watching it and live without the fear of them finding out anything. These are all rather worrisome things to say about how you feel your parents perceive you. It just sounds like you have major issues with overbearing parents. Like I said, I wasn't being cute when I said you might want to consider either counseling or family counseling to help work out these issues.

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but I was refering to the idea that all porn is bad and abusive to women, takes only professional pron in to consideration. a woman enjoying showing her self off is not being abusive to herself.


No, not all professional porn is exploitative or sexist, but enough of it is that it generally lends a bad reputation to the medium. However, whether the mere concept of any pornography is wholly demeaning to women in reducing them to masturbatory aids is a major source of debate.


this assumign I'm not at a moderate use. its not the ammount of porn you watch that they find evil its watching any porn. I also don't' find porn evil. so i don't want nor think I should stop. porn is good for forever alone worthles men is the closest to a real relationship we'll ever get.

dude you miss the whole point its not wrong its not wrong. neitehr is me being into petplay . i want to live my life how I am not have to change who I am to make others happy while I live unhappy.

what do you think about femal porn then? porn made for females. theres just as many male cams and male picture posting sites and women commenting and asking for more. porn isn't deaming to women. thats a personal basis. lots of women enjoy it, others woudlnt' and so find it demeaning. why can't we just let people be different.



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03 Aug 2015, 8:37 am

I tend to think addictions sexual in nature should be just about the easiest to deal with, at least for men. It's not like we can have a lot of orgasms in a row without needing a few hours to recover. Sounds more like the problem is about what you do with all those hours.


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03 Aug 2015, 2:13 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
I tend to think addictions sexual in nature should be just about the easiest to deal with, at least for men. It's not like we can have a lot of orgasms in a row without needing a few hours to recover. Sounds more like the problem is about what you do with all those hours.


some men can.



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04 Aug 2015, 11:17 am

sly279 wrote:
this assumign I'm not at a moderate use. its not the ammount of porn you watch that they find evil its watching any porn. I also don't' find porn evil. so i don't want nor think I should stop. porn is good for forever alone worthles men is the closest to a real relationship we'll ever get.


Well, then you're only burdening yourself with your own problems. If you feel any kind of guilt about watching porn or fear of having your parents find out but don't want to stop watching it, then neither I nor anyone else can help you. This is your own problem.

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what do you think about femal porn then? porn made for females. theres just as many male cams and male picture posting sites and women commenting and asking for more. porn isn't deaming to women. thats a personal basis. lots of women enjoy it, others woudlnt' and so find it demeaning. why can't we just let people be different.


There's no difference, though most "lesbian porn" tends to be directly marketed at men and most "female porn" tends to be directly marketed at gay men. Women are usually a minority demographic in visual pornography, as men are far more affected by visual stimuli than women are.