Why keep going when it's pointless?

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I'm not desperate or I'd dated women who didn't match up or I wasn't attreacted to at all.

As for miserable. Well the women or wanting to date me makes me sad, so if what u say is true then it's a paradox.

Women not wanting to date me makes me sad which causes women not want to date me which makes me said which causes women not want to date me. Paradox loop. Nope

It's cause and effect women not wanting to date me made me sad not the othe way around. I use to be happy til women crushed my soul to put me in my place. I was stupid in thinking I deserved happiness and that I could make a woman happy.

Money, cars and homes make women happy not being funny, silly, romantic, or caring.

That's like saying the car accident caused they guy to get drunk. While it was him being drunk that made him crash.

But I get it blame the guy it's impossible women could be at fault women are perfect

I wish women would stop thinking that they are some sort of perfect goddesses and that they are right and faultless, and that being a woman allows you to behave in any way you want without consequences.

Some women think they're goddesses; others don't.

Some men think they're gods; others don't.

^Hear, hear!
I'm kind of the opposite of thinking that I'm a goddess on occasion, which can lead to dark times, but I keep going! Yay for me and everyone else who does the same!

Hey Sly, I thought we were buddies.

Why haven't you spoken to me in a while?

How about just miserable?

I like to take my broken heart to the gym. Listen to music and run or workout. Last time my heart broke I took a martial arts class. The navy seal sniper that got bin Laden, said he was working off a broken heart too. Eminem said he became a hamster he ran so much after getting off pills. I think bad feelings are like rocket fuel for self improvement. Probably other interests too, my divorce hurt deeply, but that is why I went to school again and it's very difficult to think about divorce when you are working on a programming assignment.

Why carry on?
Because.

Sometimes I get depressed and just come home and watch stand up comedy all night for weeks at a time. Then I laugh and feel better and learn jokes to tell people and comedians like to point how absurd the world is, so I don't feel so alone.

Because.

Still single, no friends, somewhere between shaky alliances and straight out people just treating me like crap because they can at work, not to mention stealing credit and talking trash. I just carry on - because. If because is the only reason i carry on, then they can't stop me. They can hurt me, they can try to ruin my work, my rep at work, interfere with my relationships, but they cannot stop me! Every day I go to sleep wondering why it is this way. Every day I wake up and I say world, let's jam this square peg into a round hole one more f@$&ing time! And I do it with a smile! Why do I smile? I don't even know, I just do it.

Why? Because!

^ I love smiling! We could be friends if you'd like!

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Anyway, I think sly is lucky enough to have a job. Most aspies don't get that. So he should be grateful for that and forget about ever getting girlfriend, just go about his life as usual.

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I don't know. I was being extremely passionate.
What's the point of forgetting about ever getting a girlfriend? If you do that, you're less likely to find someone because of a cynical attitude.

It's good to be cynical if you are an aspie. That way you won't be disappointed.

It's good to optimistic when you're an Aspie. That way you have hope.

I hope sly is still around and he fixed his car.

I did get a message from him yesterday, so I think he's still around.

Did he fix his car?

He didn't say, and I forgot to ask.