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14 Apr 2007, 7:16 pm

Who's been flaming you???


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14 Apr 2007, 7:18 pm

Uh... one_man_army or something.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:30 pm

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Well then you're giving in. Are you a little b***h? Think about it. Are you a little b***h? Think about it for a minute. Hopefully, the answer should be no. There's more to your life even if you think there isn't. I've never visited where you live but I'm sure there's at least somewhere you could go to, somewhere. If you're in the Australian Outback and there's literally nothing for hundreds of miles then it will be tricky but there'll be something out there. Also try and get some work on your confidence.

Having friends is not the be-all and end all. If you're offended by what some waster just said, imagine how horribly you'll get taken advantage of by some 'friends' you find? Something to think about anyway.


Not exactly the Outback, but it seems like just a country town with SFA to do.....


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14 Apr 2007, 7:32 pm

Oh, and Tequila is being a meanie to now!



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14 Apr 2007, 7:34 pm

RedMage wrote:
Oh, and Tequila is being a meanie to now!


Read that quote in my post, RedMage...


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14 Apr 2007, 7:34 pm

Nope, Tequila is asking you to look at yourself and your behaviour and ask yourself if you are behaving in a negative way...you keep seeing things totally black and white, which is an aspie trait, but it can be improved on.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:35 pm

Quatermass wrote:
Not exactly the Outback, but it seems like just a country town with SFA to do.....


Bit like where I live then. Not a lot to do here really apart from a) have a walk round or drive into the countryside or b) have a pint.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:36 pm

Graelwyn wrote:
Nope, Tequila is asking you to look at yourself and your behaviour and ask yourself if you are behaving in a negative way...you keep seeing things totally black and white, which is an aspie trait, but it can be improved on.

I can't help being negative, it's all I learnt. I learnt to get angry when people hurt my feelings, now look at what it's done to me! :cry:



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14 Apr 2007, 7:39 pm

RedMage wrote:
Graelwyn wrote:
Nope, Tequila is asking you to look at yourself and your behaviour and ask yourself if you are behaving in a negative way...you keep seeing things totally black and white, which is an aspie trait, but it can be improved on.

I can't help being negative, it's all I learnt. I learnt to get angry when people hurt my feelings, now look at what it's done to me! :cry:


I get angry too when people hurt my feelings and I still do lash out at them sometimes...BUT, it pushes people away and makes them dislike you. I mean, would you want a friend who got nasty with you whenever you said something that hurt them, even if you did it by mistake? Would you like it if someone said mean things to you whenever you made a mistake or even spoke the truth?

You HAVE to learn to think before you act/speak when you get angry. You have to learn to think...did they mean that? Did they deliberately hurt me? Or is it that they are just human like me, with their own different ideas and thoughts and 'stuff'

You cannot imagine how many people I drove away with my anger.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:39 pm

You think I've hurt your feelings. I haven't. I could say I'd like to stove your head in or something. All I'm saying is that it's time for you to take a good look at yourself and see what you can better yourself on.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:42 pm

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Not a lot to do here really apart from a) have a walk round or drive into the countryside or b) have a pint.


But that is an understatement...you live in God's county (forget what the Yorkshiremen might say, we know which is the real one).

Another thing worth mentioning is that most of the stuff that I tend do (read/listen to music/do maths etc) could just as easily be done anywhere so I guess location isn't everything.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:43 pm

I took a look at that site, and it doesn't seem anywhere near as bad as you make it sound. It just seems like a less populated, more relaxed version of this place.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:44 pm

*sigh* I don't know what to do...



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14 Apr 2007, 7:45 pm

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I took a look at that site, and it doesn't seem anywhere near as bad as you make it sound. It just seems like a less populated, more relaxed version of this place.


HAHA, what have you seen on this site that I have not? There is a porn thread there, among other things, and swear words in almost every post, plus they have a nice habit of calling one another the most insulting names possible. You have to register to see the full site, only half is visible to guests.



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14 Apr 2007, 7:45 pm

JakeG wrote:
Tequila wrote:
Not a lot to do here really apart from a) have a walk round or drive into the countryside or b) have a pint.


But that is an understatement...you live in God's county (forget what the Yorkshiremen might say, we know which is the real one).


Yeah. And I have that bloody silly town down the road from me where they make that silly local paper with nothing in it. ;)



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14 Apr 2007, 7:50 pm

Tequila wrote:
Depends what you mean by flaming. I tend to think that too many times you don't like what a poster's said and you're crying wolf.


Maybe you should go over to the dark side (read: intensitysquared)