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Berabara
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17 Jul 2016, 2:38 pm

Raleigh wrote:
^ Berabara is profoundly deaf.
Do you realise how incredibly difficult it is to learn language and grammar when you've never heard it spoken?
I think he's doing amazingly well.

I can speak very well but I made mistakes on i mean my sister with severe social anxiety and then my youngest sister tries copy her and then I don't copy people like pretending severe social anxiety that's sounds silly does it but I have learning disability Asperger's syndrome I'm smart in my own way everyone is different like I said :)


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Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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17 Jul 2016, 2:54 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Hey Berabara,

Don't listen to fools who want to criticize. They are the people who need to learn things.

How's the weather today?

It's cloudy light winds pretty cool day for me lol so I ignore idiots deaf people are really good at ignoring things about negative things to me so I won't be bothered so sounds why he say that I have grammar problems because study was hard and speech I was born deaf and I use hearing aids doesn't help that much even on the phone it's hard to understand what people saying to me I get extreme frustrated when I don't understand what's going on around me so I get confused all the time I don't understand long words it's hard how to say to speech for me also I have Asperger's syndrome as well repetitive language and few other symptoms in Asperger's I'm mild case which is good luckily I don't have severe because I was born CMV infection that cause me deafness lucky no side effects mum told me that


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Diagnosis Asperger's Syndrome back in 2005
also have Anxiety Disorder, OCD

Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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17 Jul 2016, 3:00 pm

traven wrote:
wanting your sister to smile more, good on you, berabara, i understand well what you say,

i know an older deaf and mute person, he'd learned some speech, that sounds very musically
he used to drive his french-licence-free car while honking all the time :D he couldn't hear that but everybody knew when he was coming :D :D

and among my french friends, those whom are teachers just need to tell me everytime that i don't speak french very well, as if i don't know, it's very un-encouraging!

Hello there :) and being born deaf is hard to learn speech deaf people use sign language I know some but I speak very well been told my parents and friends I speak very clear voice I talk fast when I'm excited lol that's just I'm steven that's all yeah speaking new language would be very hard to learn takes awhile like i need a helper special needs teacher or support teacher it's called assignment or something like that


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Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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17 Jul 2016, 3:07 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
I congratulate you, Berebara, because I'm sure your learning difficulties are as profound as you say. I have a hard time speaking to people because I'm avoidant because of autism. My brothers and sisters learned to speak like a Yankee, I never did. Up till yesterday someone asked me if I was Jamaican. I'm not, I'm from Trinidad and Tobago.
I speak very well for born profoundly deaf which is really rare so I was born CMV that's virus that cause me deafness I was in mum belly I was born that way so I have calcium deposits in my brain so I don't understand how speak long words like u know what I mean? It's very hard also I get frustrated about long words I don't like them they overwhelmed me so much

Now, all that said, what I wanted to point out is I am only mildly autistic and STILL have trouble communicating with people. I can just imagine how absolutely DIFFICULT it is if you're PROFOUNDLY deaf AND autistic.

I think you're doing fine. You're reaching out to us and, believe me, I am completely flabbergasted that someone would chastise you for that. I apologize for him and I'd like you to keep up the good work. You make us proud on Wrong Planet.


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also have Anxiety Disorder, OCD

Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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17 Jul 2016, 3:12 pm

I can't dare to imagine how hard your challenges must have been, and I applaud you for liking to make people smile and being good at it -- good on you! Don't worry about the harsh comment you got on this thread, it was uncalled for.



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17 Jul 2016, 3:29 pm

Smiles are the best gifts to give and to receive. :)



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17 Jul 2016, 3:49 pm

Berabara wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
^ Berabara is profoundly deaf.
Do you realise how incredibly difficult it is to learn language and grammar when you've never heard it spoken?
I think he's doing amazingly well.

I can speak very well but I made mistakes on i mean my sister with severe social anxiety and then my youngest sister tries copy her and then I don't copy people like pretending severe social anxiety that's sounds silly does it but I have learning disability Asperger's syndrome I'm smart in my own way everyone is different like I said :)

That's great that you can speak well.
My speech isn't so good.
I'd rather use sign language to communicate.
You're right about everyone being clever in their own way.


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18 Jul 2016, 12:40 am

Raleigh wrote:
Berabara wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
^ Berabara is profoundly deaf.
Do you realise how incredibly difficult it is to learn language and grammar when you've never heard it spoken?
I think he's doing amazingly well.

I can speak very well but I made mistakes on i mean my sister with severe social anxiety and then my youngest sister tries copy her and then I don't copy people like pretending severe social anxiety that's sounds silly does it but I have learning disability Asperger's syndrome I'm smart in my own way everyone is different like I said :)

That's great that you can speak well.
My speech isn't so good.
I'd rather use sign language to communicate.
You're right about everyone being clever in their own way.

Yeah u should try Learn speak and sign language as well it will take a lot practices like I did


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Diagnosis Asperger's Syndrome back in 2005
also have Anxiety Disorder, OCD

Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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18 Jul 2016, 2:00 am

BirdInFlight wrote:
I can't dare to imagine how hard your challenges must have been, and I applaud you for liking to make people smile and being good at it -- good on you! Don't worry about the harsh comment you got on this thread, it was uncalled for.

I'm sorry what do u mean that u don't care?


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Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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18 Jul 2016, 2:20 am

Bird in Flight hasn't said that she doesn't care, and her comments show that she does care :)



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18 Jul 2016, 7:39 am

Hi Berabara -- perhaps you mis-read one of the words I used, maybe the word "dare" looked like "care." I said "I can't dare to imagine how hard your challenges must be," meaning that I know things must be so difficult for you that I shouldnt be so bold as to think I know half of what you must deal with, hence I shouldn't "dare." :) It was a supportive comment. :)

This might be the thing you misunderstood in my post maybe? I also wanted to let you know that the things that other person said about your post were unfair, and to ignore the criticism.



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