Why can’t I just be loved for who I am?

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Been rejected in person for same reason. I’ve also seen women I’ve interacted with and worked with on dating sites. It’s not generalization when they themselves say it.o.0
If every guy you met said you were ugly and so won’t date you how would you respond to that? Eventually you’d accept that’s reality and you can’t fight it.
Every wo,an I’ve met says I’m ugly and that I’m not good enough to date for not having car, Job and own place ie life together. To believe otherwise is paramount to me thinking I can fly despite falling to ground ever time I try,

As been pointed out to me here by women and some men, I have nothing to offer and never will unless I go get a actual job and work full time, climb the Corp ladder, be a real man etc.

I dont know how to write anything funny without coming off creepy. And I see others do it but i dont know how, I also have no life experiences as I’m poor. I can’t trwvel, I can’t go do things. I can’t share some awkward trwvel experiences as I’ve never traveled.
My personality is seen as childish. It’s ok for women to be playful and silly, when a guy is he’s childish and needs to grow up.
Anyways as I don’t do things, don’t trwvel and don’t habe friends, I have to tske sll ,y pictures myself so that limits me to selfies, unless I go pay a professional $300 to tske w photo but I can’t afford that either. Apparently lot people get their photos edited to them look more good for dating sites

No friends, my hobbies are video games(limited to online only mostly guys),tv, shaving(limited to guys online), coin collecting(can’t tell others) and guns(can’t tell others) in short my interest are male dominated, very few women and the ones who do are married or in relationships and got into the interest from their bf.
People at work don’t like me, especially the women as they too good for me.
See that’s the problem women in person don’t want to waste their time on guy like me either not even for friends. They won’t even talk to me, I’ll try to say hi and hey ignore me or give me a nasty look and ignore me. How would I ever get a chance ? And I have hard time talking to or even looking at women so it takes a lot for me to say hi.
However with the younger guys going to college they go right up and flirt with them. So they ignore me and flirt with the other guys(often they have gf already)
In fact I’m mostly invisible to people at work, hey have private conversation right next to me like I’m not even there.

Last job women would ask me where all the men are like I don’t exist.

I’d have to pm you pictures as it’s all apps now and can’t share profile links.

often what people think someone is, and what they really are, can be very different things.

i imagine some of these people didn’t get the opportunity to know you very well.

I wish Sly would believe what people say about him—that they like him—rather than seeking to contradict them.

The world isn’t as bad as the Internet portrays it.

He actually thinks more people like me than him but that is not true at all. The people who hate me here outnumber the ones who don’t and they want me gone. They also get away with talking s**t about me but if I dare say anything, I get blocked for 30 days.

Have you seen your grandmother much recently?

Sit in her room with her along with family every day. It working. She’s getting worse, can’t talk anymore

I’m sooooooo lonely

hugs

is your grandma better?

No she passed last Sunday, so dealing with that too