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08 Jul 2018, 3:08 pm

You will find someone if you’re patient and work towards self improvement. There are lots of women out there. Plenty of women don’t care if a potential suitor is on disability and doesn’t have a car or house. Negativity, however, is a big turn-off.


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08 Jul 2018, 3:29 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
You will find someone if you’re patient and work towards self improvement. There are lots of women out there. Plenty of women don’t care if a potential suitor is on disability and doesn’t have a car or house. Negativity, however, is a big turn-off.

Self improvement how?
I can’t get a better job since I can’t handl full time work



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08 Jul 2018, 3:34 pm

sly279 wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
You will find someone if you’re patient and work towards self improvement. There are lots of women out there. Plenty of women don’t care if a potential suitor is on disability and doesn’t have a car or house. Negativity, however, is a big turn-off.

Self improvement how?
I can’t get a better job since I can’t handl full time work


I wasn’t talking about work.

What are you interested in? What do you like to do?

You could get involved in some type of group or class in your community that centers around an interest, see a therapist and work on social skills, learn to cook, go to your library and join a book club. The list of things you could do is endless and a lot of them could be great opportunities to meet girls.


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08 Jul 2018, 3:54 pm

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08 Jul 2018, 4:47 pm

there's more to life than being popular, or having a mate.



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14 Jul 2018, 1:40 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
You will find someone if you’re patient and work towards self improvement. There are lots of women out there. Plenty of women don’t care if a potential suitor is on disability and doesn’t have a car or house. Negativity, however, is a big turn-off.

Self improvement how?
I can’t get a better job since I can’t handl full time work


I wasn’t talking about work.

What are you interested in? What do you like to do?

You could get involved in some type of group or class in your community that centers around an interest, see a therapist and work on social skills, learn to cook, go to your library and join a book club. The list of things you could do is endless and a lot of them could be great opportunities to meet girls.


I like video games, guns, history and coins.

There’s no real groups or community classes here besides the expensive college classes.
I don’t read.



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14 Jul 2018, 7:16 am

You must read something to know all the history you know.



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14 Jul 2018, 1:17 pm

sly279 wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
You will find someone if you’re patient and work towards self improvement. There are lots of women out there. Plenty of women don’t care if a potential suitor is on disability and doesn’t have a car or house. Negativity, however, is a big turn-off.

Self improvement how?
I can’t get a better job since I can’t handl full time work


Great start! You’ve identified an area for self improvement. Work on yourself until you can handle more, and or different, work - especially if you feel that more/different work (and more money) will enhance your life. 8)


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