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"potentially excellent"?

Everyone has a "potentially excellent" future

Does not mean that their future is "excellent"

Plenty of college graduates unemployed and underemployed



Especially social science, humanities, autistics, LGBT , mentally ill

I know everyone hates me. People avoid me.

No progress since i started this topic. I dont want to kill myself but i have to. Today im not feeling brave enough. So im waiting for the perfect day to end my life

WRONG. i dont hate u. other people, who posted here dont hate u. there is no "have to" on this. there is depression. and it sucks. "now i lie to myself so i can believe her, as she disassembles my life". u havent failed. u have a future if u are brave enough to go for it. suicide isnt bravery. its about giving up. bravery is, staying. despite all odds. despite the terror, despite the pain, despite that voice in ur head that tells u there is nothing in tomorrow. because it f*****g lies. had i listened to it, had i killed myself when there was nothing but pain and duty in my life, i wouldnt have met a new morrow. something is happening, that makes me long for a new day, now. it wouldnt, if i didnt stay my hand multiple times, when everything was seeming dark and lost. i really had no objective future, i am disabled and failed. and yet there is something i can strive for. something i can aim for. and u are young, u have a distinct future ahead of u. u might have lost ur momentum, u might feel like staggering in the dark. but every night meets it's morrow. even a polar one. i keep saying it, because i keep living it. because i have survived long enough to see it happening. because meeting a dawn once makes the next night easier, shorter, not so dark. even if i yell and freak out as terrors of the night torment me. open ur eyes and stop pretending, this is not a perfect end

[quote="serpentari"]WRONG. i dont hate u. other people, who posted here dont hate u.

"There's a thin line between love and hate"

Not everyone hates you

And if they did, so what?

Not everyone hates Trump


there is no "have to" on this.

"Have to" in what sense?

there is depression. and it sucks. "now i lie to myself so i can believe her, as she disassembles my life". u havent failed.

Failure is not tabboo

If you lower the standards of ",success", then "success" means nothing



u have a future if u are brave enough to go for it.

Nobody knows what kind of "future" you have, unless they are precognitive


[b]suicide isnt bravery. its about giving up. bravery is, staying.

You can't measure bravery

Different people define bravery different ways


Strangers on the internet do not know your situation

Words can't express your emotional condition


There is something wrong with everything


Your situation could get better, the same, or worse


Psychobabble feels unjustified, to me

psychobabble is a necessery part of cycle of recovery. i have made the decision to stay alive when there was no hope. and then i found hope. and it happened several times. the only way to trully lose, is to give up. because as long as u stay alive and keep trying, u can unf**k things. if u die, u cannot. simple as that.

I wish I lived close to Nature.

I always feel more relaxed in Nature.

I don't feel relaxed, often, in an urban setting.

Im still miserable.

Zero friends and no life. I went to therapist but they never say what i should do

For clarity, people do not hate you. They might fear you but most are indifferent about your existence. What is more important is what do you feel about yourself. It seems like you would say, "On a scale of 1 to 10, I would give it a zero." That is the crux of the problem. You are displaying signs of trauma. Trauma is caused by overbearing stress. The life of most Aspies are full of stressors and it is difficult to vent stress in a socially acceptable manner. But if you learn ways of successfully purging stress chemicals and hormones from your body, you will find the trauma symptoms reduce dramatically.

Most NTs are not able to read what an Aspie is thinking. Most NTs automatically focus on reading the hidden signals in the eyes and around the eyes. One interesting way you can block their stares is by wearing mirrored glasses. Think of the mirrored silver sunglasses that motorcycle cops use to wear. It is like looking out through a one way mirror. These glasses come in a variety of colors. I prefer blue because the color blue is peaceful, tranquil and symbolizes loyalty. Blue is reliable and responsible. It exhibits inner security and confidence. The non-prescription types are fairly inexpensive but you can also buy these as prescription glasses. You can obtain these as mirrored finish only and not tinted which will then allow you to wear them indoors.