Im ugly and repulsive

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For what it's worth when I see people who are uglier or more beautiful than I it's a passing thought, I consider them equal depending on behavior. Give me a kind person any day over an arrogant one, regardless of looks.

BTW - my "ugly" BFF (Aspie traits) decided to be beautiful and by golly she did it. Maybe it was standing a little taller, a softer look on her face, keeping her hair out of her face... she still doesn't wear makeup, so it was mostly posture or presence - and maybe a shorter hairstyle (and some medications for mood may have helped too).

That video is v relevant

Your opinion is that you are ugly. Maybe a lot of other people think you are ugly too. I would be willing to bet someone has been attracted to you and you just didn’t know it. It is not hopeless for you.

Doesn’t matter if someone’s attracted to you if they never act on it. Odds are for example that if someone one liked me they’d acted on it. But seems no women in my area find me attractive as I’ve liked thousands and thousands on dating sites never been liked back. If few women existed who found me attractive I’d gotten atleast w few likes in all those women and in the 10+ years I’ve been doing it and atleast. I’ve nevwr Been asked out or flirted with either in 18 years.

Society treats people that it finds ugly, better than it treats attractive people

Discrimination

However, "life" goes on and on and on and on and on

Short of plastic surgery, there is not much you can do to change your appearance

So please worry more about what you are doing and worry less about what you look like

Women, as a rule, don’t ask guys out.

I’ve never been asked out by a woman.

A Jesus Freak girl once offered to buy me ice cream. That was over 40 years ago.

I always had to do the “asking out.”

I am sure a lot of people in history who changed the world for the better, wouldn't have been considered beautiful or handsome by modern, lookism society's standards. For instance, a lot of the folk who lived before the age of the camera might have been self conscious about having their photo taken if there had been.

It's what you do that needs to count more.

I am sure Sly is not as much of a "lost cause" as he thinks he is.

I am sure Sly has the ability to appeal to a woman.

hiding at home is the best solution

Why? I'm sure others think you're better looking than you judge yourself as being.