28 Oct 2019, 8:44 pm
TW1ZTY wrote:
What's really sad is when you spend years trying to rebuild trust and make up for the way one has acted in the past, only to have it all flushed down the crapper because you make another mistake.
The perfection some parents demand out of their children is sickening, especially if they have diagnosed autism AND mental illness!
The perfection some parents demand out of their children is sickening, especially if they have diagnosed autism AND mental illness!
I've recently heard ASD described as follows, though it can probably apply to any mental disorder...
Imagine you and I sit down to play a board game. the rulebook is written in a foreign language and, rather than being bothered to translate them for you, you'll just have to learn as we play. Everytime you break a rule, the game starts all over again. And you *have* to play until you beat me. That doesn't sound fair, or like very much fun to me. Eventually, you'll get frustrated with always losing and resign from all social interaction, or I'll get frustrated with your constant rule breaking, tell you off, and never play the game with you again.
After explaining it like that, people tend to understand my diagnosis a bit better. Though, life still sucks. Especially where "capital R" relationships are concerned.
28 Oct 2019, 8:49 pm
28 Oct 2019, 8:51 pm
I don't consider anyone liking a guy to be an excuse for him to talk s**t all the time.
Endorsements =/= quality of character.
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28 Oct 2019, 9:08 pm
28 Oct 2019, 9:13 pm
I'm just here to say some of us actually know the difference between crocodile tears & a guy being honest.
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28 Oct 2019, 9:16 pm
28 Oct 2019, 9:28 pm
28 Oct 2019, 9:31 pm
28 Oct 2019, 9:45 pm
Fnord wrote:
EzraS wrote:
Fnord wrote:
I read your other thread, TW1ZTY. It sucks, but at least you have a chance to make something of it. I understand hatred. My father hated me. My classmates hated me. My teachers hated me. My ex-wife hated me. All really important people in my life hated me because I wouldn’t bow down and play their victim. Now some WP members hate me. So what? It’s part of the human condition. The sad part is that trying to be nice means nothing. So their hatred means nothing.
I certainly hope this thread does not attract people to start weighing again in as to why they have a problem with you. I'm sure that wasn't your intention in creating it, but that's certainly a possible outcome.You shall know them by the fruit they bear.
Indeed you really can't help it. Either you're too arrogant to learn the humility you incessantly demand of others or you're not. Your standards are not the center of the universe & you'll have less to say about feeling ostracized when you stop imposing arbitrary standards on other people.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
28 Oct 2019, 9:46 pm
Persecution complexes really suck.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
28 Oct 2019, 10:35 pm
28 Oct 2019, 11:40 pm
28 Oct 2019, 11:49 pm
Then I'm over it. The guy can read.
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"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
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