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hurtloam
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18 Dec 2020, 8:03 am

I'm reading all your comments. Thank you.

Exhausted people unite.

I had some video calls planned today. Ive cancelled them. I'm too frazzled.



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18 Dec 2020, 9:57 am

My family just ignores my plans and acts like they're not important and does their stupid thing. I feel useless because nobody is assigning me a job and everybody just runs away from the things I make for fun. Everybody would rather do their stupid thing than my thing. I would appreciate it if more people take my surveys, all you need is a link to access a survey. In fifth grade, I had a teacher who hated me and didn't care that I was feeling very sad. For the past almost three years, my teachers were complaining about EVERYTHING I'm doing.

Beginning of 2018: My teachers were ignoring everything I'm saying and recording it as blurting out and saying inappropriate comments.
January 23, 2018: I was crying in Social Studies class ALL because my teachers were complaining about EVERYTHING I'm doing.
May 17, 2018: Ms. Bishop called me rude for dancing and made me cry on stage.
Beginning of 2019: My teachers were complaining that I was laughing in class.
March 6, 2019: My teachers were complaining that I walked home from school the Monday before and weren't concerned about it when everybody else walked home from school.
May 7, 2019: My classmates were trying to make me feel bad about myself in PE.
May 15, 2019: Ms. Jones was letting my classmates look at the Apex Middle Events from previous school years and not letting me look at these events and making me work on a Disgusting Food Chain Essay and did something heartless by smiling while I'm crying.


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18 Dec 2020, 10:35 am

Hi Caroline. School can be tough.

I had a teacher who didn't like me when I was 11. It really had an impact on my self esteem.

It gets better when you leave school.

What games do you make up?



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18 Dec 2020, 11:34 am

Caroline20 wrote:
My family just ignores my plans and acts like they're not important and does their stupid thing. I feel useless because nobody is assigning me a job and everybody just runs away from the things I make for fun. Everybody would rather do their stupid thing than my thing. I would appreciate it if more people take my surveys, all you need is a link to access a survey. In fifth grade, I had a teacher who hated me and didn't care that I was feeling very sad. For the past almost three years, my teachers were complaining about EVERYTHING I'm doing.

Beginning of 2018: My teachers were ignoring everything I'm saying and recording it as blurting out and saying inappropriate comments.
January 23, 2018: I was crying in Social Studies class ALL because my teachers were complaining about EVERYTHING I'm doing.
May 17, 2018: Ms. Bishop called me rude for dancing and made me cry on stage.
Beginning of 2019: My teachers were complaining that I was laughing in class.
March 6, 2019: My teachers were complaining that I walked home from school the Monday before and weren't concerned about it when everybody else walked home from school.
May 7, 2019: My classmates were trying to make me feel bad about myself in PE.
May 15, 2019: Ms. Jones was letting my classmates look at the Apex Middle Events from previous school years and not letting me look at these events and making me work on a Disgusting Food Chain Essay and did something heartless by smiling while I'm crying.

Do you keep a diary of teachers complaining at you? 8O
How about keeping a diary for pleasant things, too?


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18 Dec 2020, 6:27 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
Nobody is useful at everything


[cough] *Almost* no one. 8)



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18 Dec 2020, 6:30 pm

hurtloam wrote:
I'm reading all your comments. Thank you.

Exhausted people unite.

I had some video calls planned today. Ive cancelled them. I'm too frazzled.


Skunks and muppets should support each other. ;)



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21 Dec 2020, 10:11 pm

What I think I am understanding from hurtloam and Caroline20 is that some demands or burdens or events weigh heavier or hurt worse for some people than others.
I think that it is an Aspergian trait to take things much more seriously than Neuro-typical.
I know that I do! :cry:


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22 Dec 2020, 1:41 am

hurtloam wrote:
Hi Caroline. School can be tough.

I had a teacher who didn't like me when I was 11. It really had an impact on my self esteem.

It gets better when you leave school.

What games do you make up?


I had a teacher that caused my dissociative disorder, when I was 4! 8O



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23 Dec 2020, 12:00 pm

Dissociative disorder?


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