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My parents are going to help me out...so I can get out of the situation...
They said they will set me up in an apartment.

it is very hard..and my mind has been going in an OCD loop over everything.
It is gonna be hard leaving SHFL...it is gonna be hard sorting through all my crap with him around to mess with me and pull my strings. Hopefully maybe I can get some help...or get him to leave so I can um...get my stuff done.

But i do have a way out at least...and I do have some friends.
I am sleeping on an ex-boyfriend's couch...
A slightly serious altercation occurred last night.
There was alcohol involved.
Everything is pretty much done for good.

It is hard...and he will pull your strings no doubt...but it WILL be okay.

I am finding it really hard to be strong and put my foot down.
I CAN"T stay in a relationship with a guy who does such horrible things, and at the same time, I still love him...I am scared of being replaced I am scared of being alone...i get set off and trapped in the sttupid loop of wanting to call him every 5 minutes...of wanting things to go back to the way they were before...etc....
blah blah blah...just having a bad moment......

I think you should see a lawyer.

It could be you have a common law partnership or be entitled to salary or profit share.

(here) many lawyers will give you a free first consultation.

I agree. PoopyLungStuffing should see a lawyer that specializes in labor law and get the attorney's advice about reporting her skunk of a boyfriend to Wage and Hour. Not only may she be entitled to back wages but she will get the satisfaction of sitting back and watching the skunk get his ass kicked. And seeing that it's legal the skunk won't be able to do a damn thing about it.

I was not getting a wage because we were "partners"...
He is still saying that he wants to "give" me SHFL.
He still says that he does not want me to go
It is all very exasperating

Take your parents offer. It will give you opportunity to clear your mind and take care of yourself. If you have that kind of support system, then use it to your benefit. Of course, if you want to keep SHFL, you could always take him to court. There could be comonlaw suit somewhere there. Use that aspie rage strength that you know is in there. If you get out and away into part of a different setting, you will see how much bigger the world is.

You know my thoughts already,
get out, make a fresh start, you deserve better. Ignore his manipulations. Show you are stronger than that.

so you're entitled to a share of profits ....?

um....I don't pay the bills or the rent or for my own food or what-have-you...he pays for everything...i don't have much of a relationship with money....he covered it.
In that effect, i received a share of the profits..meanwhile...it is always a stretch to cover bills and whatnot....so it isn't really like there are a whole lot of profits to begin with.

Anyway...yeah..I am gonna take my parents offer. My dad has even talked about sending me to school (i would need some sorta "special ed" program..if I am not on amphetamines or what-have-you..) Maybe i can become a librarian or a montessori school teacher..or something....

He needs to stop blackmailing me with the notion that this place will shut down if I leave.

If this place shuts down...and I REEEELY don't want it to...it will not be my fault....

shoot him and burn his business.

i like to keep it simple