My feelings haven't been hurt this badly in a long time....

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Phagocyte
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08 Nov 2007, 6:58 pm

JimmyNeurtonRules wrote:
See this is why we hate NT girlz


I would hardly call her "neurotypical." The first thing that came to my mind was some sort of mental problem.



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08 Nov 2007, 7:00 pm

wsmac wrote:
Just step back for a few days and then check in again.

Might be a good idea..

Cernunnos wrote:
She thinks enough of you to confide her feelings to you - if she really didn't like you, I suspect she would have just ignored you even on-line.

Wow, that's a really good point.

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she might have interpereted your kindness for trying to come onto her or something.


Have you done things like this for her before? Giving someone a gift and going out of your way to do so is nice, but it might also highlight the fact that she wouldn't (or doesn't want to) do the same thing for you. When people get gifts or favors from someone, they feel obligated to return the favor. I'd make it clear that you just felt like cheering her up, and it wasn't a big deal, and give her a lot of space.

Well, I took her to a ballet a month or so ago, because she said she really wanted to go to one, but she didn't know anyone who would go with her. Then, a couple times I've met her for tea, because she was sad and wanted me to.
JimmyNeurtonRules wrote:
See this is why we hate NT girlz

No mean to burst your bubble there, but I think it's highly likely she has AS.



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08 Nov 2007, 7:42 pm

I imagine, as some have suggested, that she was simply in a black and white frame of mind because of her hurt feelings at the time.
I don't suppose she meant to upset you...and by the way, I think what you did for her was really sweet.



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08 Nov 2007, 8:06 pm

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GoatMan - you should change your sig if you're going to talk like that. There's nothing gentlemanly about what you said. It's hateful, bigoted and completely irrational, if not outright psychotic (i.e., insane). Not to mention hypocritical - it's OK to bash women because they bash men? And that makes you superior how?


I act like a gentleman to those that deserve it. Remember, honor and morality are not the same thing. Honor applies to maintaining your own dignity, and those of people you hold in high regard, with a "Devil may care" attitude to the rest.

Secondly, one can hate whole populations without being insane or irrational. Until I stop dealing with the trainwrecks of people on, dealing, or related to those on meth (who seem to be over 90% of the population up here), maybe then I'll find some decent people that will make my statements bigoted, irrational, and insane. Until then, I have encountered a startling trend which has yet to be eliminated with a hypothesis test, in which women are terminally insane.

Finally, how is it that my statements do not apply to this girl? She clearly is just as bigoted, irrational, and as you put it, psychotic. She trusts only her daddy and a girly wuss, who are the only two that would not show any kind of genuine interest in her both as a person and as a woman. She hates men, but constantly puts herself in positions where she's trying to get their attention in the typical wh**ish methods. Therefore, she's shoving Cyanide away because he isn't the stereotypical boy-band looking, hormone driven freak. That, or taking a glance towards his waist, she thinks he doesn't "measure up".

Just buy her a cylindrical piece of plastic, and tell her to go knock herself out, as clearly something beyond the intellect of a house cat or furry, cute little trinket will be too advanced for her.


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09 Nov 2007, 5:50 am

GoatMan wrote:
I act like a gentleman to those that deserve it.

A true gentleman acts like a gentleman to all, without regard to whether or not they deserve it.

"Just as God makes the sun shine and the rain fall on the good and the evil alike, let your heart be without judgement and let your kindness rain upon all."


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09 Nov 2007, 12:43 pm

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She's being a typical estrogen-driven dumb*** right now. I don't know what it is, but I highly suspect it's in the water supply.

There is yet to be one single female I've met, Aspie or no, which is rational enough to tolerate dealing with for long periods of time. They think everything is the fault of men, and only men, from the threat of global thermonuclear war, to them having such messy and complicated reproductive organs.

It's literally their job in life, apparently, to bash men, and then whine to everyone about how "evil" men are when we stand up to them.

And as another odd factor in the male/female relationship, the attractiveness of a guy is directly proportional to how abusive and controlling they are of girls, and their manhood's size. So, if you act nice to them, all they do is whine and complain. However, if you slap them around, and treat them like dirt, apparently they like that.

So, just realize that all women are terminally insane.


I don't agree with that, but I understand why someone would.