WHY THE HELL CANT I BE PERFECT LIKE YOU PEOPLE?

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Kilroy
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14 Aug 2008, 10:40 pm

no one is perfect
especially not anyone here lol

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18 Aug 2008, 2:03 am

Well the thought was nice, I am the furthest from perfection, I am a perfect disaster :lol:

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18 Aug 2008, 10:50 am

princess_1989 wrote:

WHY THE HELL CANT I LIVE A NORMAL SENSIBLE LIFE? I'm sick of always living like a baby.
Heck I'm not as productive as an Aspie, I lean toward the Classic Autism (exaggerating)- For being treated like a baby, and not having maturity, I may as well consider myself with mental retardation. WHAT KIND OF ADULT GETS A WHIPPING- NOT EVEN AN ASPIE.

I JUST WISH I WERE PERFECT LIKE THE DAMN NT's (who need to just go to hell), and you wrongpalnet people!.

I try to act mature, but my attempts are unsuccessful. IF YOU GUYS CAN LIVE BETTER DAMN LIVES AND NOT HAVE BAD MELTDOWNS- then WHY THE f**k CANT I?.

I am sick of this sh**! everyone around me lives like a better adult, and never gets in trouble like a baby, and can control their frustrations better than I. WHY DO I NEED HELP CALMING DOWN LIKE WHEN I AM FRUSTRATED. I DONT CARE IF YOU ALL GET MAD, I"M SICK OF YOU ALL BEING BETTER THAN ME. WHY AM I THE ONLY ONE COMPLINING ABOUT A WHIPPING AS AN ADULT.

YOU DAMN PERFECT ASS PEOPLE!! !! !! Oh and what doesnt my family understand about me WANTING TO BE A BETTER PERSON- yeah they get sick of me repeating that too, but IF I DIDNT HAVE SO MUCH CRAP WITH ME I WOULDNT HAVE TO REPEAT. WHY HAVENT I FOUND ANOTHER ADULT WITH THE SAME PROBLEMS AS ME? I WANT TO BE PERFECT TOO DAMIT. HOW COME I DONT KNOW THE SECRET TO THAT?

I;m giving myself a deadline- by the time I'm 20, and if I'm not a better- perfect, responsible adult lke the rest of the world is, then I'm starving and thirsting myself!! ! Surely thats gotta be happier than being an adult who needs to be BABYSAT,and TREATED LIKE A BABY.

My family dosnt understand my need to wanna be better. NT's ARE Stupid if they dont understand that!! !! !

I'm gonna learn to sail and become a pilot, so I can sail all the way to ANTARTICA, that will make me happier!!, and itll prove i'm just as smart as you all.! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !
I wanna HURRY UP AND BE MATURE _ ON PAR WITH MY AGE
I WANT BETTER NOW. WHY DO I HAVE TO SUFFER, with being EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE?

Princess you sound a hell of a lot like me, and I think you are emotionally mature. It's just that people can't handle the way other people act. I have I huge ethical dilemma with it because everyone tells me to tone myself down, but I really don't want to. I was them to understand who I am and that just because I am loud emotionally it doesn't mean I'm out of control or whatever. I don't really like the idea of changing the way I am for other people and I to only do it only when necessary, but it still feels like I'm cheating myself when I act the way people want me to behave because they don't get me. A lot of people on this site have similar problems to you. I am 27 and still living with my parents.

I get really depressed sometimes but I finally got my own job and I am a lot more self reliant now so I just try to be as confident that I can about myself.

I know I can't really make you feel better but please feel free to have any meltdown you want on here. It's nothing to be ashamed of. The people on here understand more than anybody.

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09 Feb 2010, 4:52 pm

they have massive gatherings of emperor peonguins in antarctica, what sort of socail isolation do you hope to get from being with them lol, no but srylsly, i used to think like you, there was a time in my life where i would blame everyone else for all my problems, blame naurotypicals, blame society etc, but i realised that hating everyone else and myself jsut created a cycle of hatred i couldnt escape from. im not saying be a saint, i know nts are stupid and primitvie soemtimes but its not their fault, it you want to blame them for your social impairmant you might as well blame a falcon for not being able to fly. go to a sailing club or soemthing

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09 Feb 2010, 5:00 pm

This thread has been inactive for over 18 months; please be aware when resurrecting threads that many of the members may no longer be active on WP.

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09 Feb 2010, 7:25 pm

makuranososhi wrote:

This thread has been inactive for over 18 months; please be aware when resurrecting threads that many of the members may no longer be active on WP.

M.

Why should that matter?

- Inactive members who have these emails directed to their accounts may come back.
- If the thread suddenly becomes topical again, it will get enough posts to get listed on the front pages.

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09 Feb 2010, 7:34 pm

gbollard wrote:

makuranososhi wrote:

This thread has been inactive for over 18 months; please be aware when resurrecting threads that many of the members may no longer be active on WP.

M.

There have been a number of instances in the past 6-8 months with so-called "zombie" threads being resurrected with the new contributors getting angry and flaming the OP or earlier contributors for not responding. Bringing back someone's personal issues from the Haven after 18 months doesn't seem to have much in terms of practical purpose; however, just because I don't see the point doesn't mean there aren't relevant things to say. Just giving a heads up to avoid future problems.

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09 Feb 2010, 7:39 pm

I guess that It's probably more of a problem in the Haven where things generally stay on topic and focussed on the OP's comments. Less problematic in discussions which evolve.

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09 Feb 2010, 7:56 pm

gbollard wrote:

I guess that It's probably more of a problem in the Haven where things generally stay on topic and focussed on the OP's comments. Less problematic in discussions which evolve.

I think I'm pretty much in agreement with this statement. The only issue in the evolving discussions is when someone quotes a passage from two years in the past and expects an answer - that has led to some nastiness before things were finally explained. No worries.

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10 Feb 2010, 1:25 am

Maybe this should be locked.

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