I have a terrible phobia...

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Kissing is disgusting!

It is also cultural, many cultures do not.
Others do rub noses, or cheeks, many hand, neck or cheek kiss, but never mouths.
touching finger tips, foreheads, side head, the list goes on.

Stick to being yourself, if they don't like it, they don't like you.

I am sure you do have your own way of showing affection,

traditional was to never touch more than a ladies gloved hand when dancing.

Women do not shake hands, they still managed to continue the species.

You are a Jane Austin kind of Lady, not some tavern wench.

Thanks for your replies, everyone. My boyfriend and I have talked about this a few times, and he said he is willing to wait for me. But even with that said, I always feel like I'm under pressure even though I pretty much control this relationship (and he knows it!). I don't know, the whole situation is pretty weird.

Even though I am a germaphobe, the germs with kissing wasn't what I was really thinking about when I became so nervous. I honestly don't know what I was thinking. It all happened pretty quickly. Guess I'm just weird like that.