Im new to this board I have triplets and two of them are boys and were dianosed in the last two years with as and they will be 11. I know you all said that you were misunderstood as children you folks would be perfect helpers to me because Im having a tough time interacting with my boys and they push me to the boiling points when they dig holes in my wall and break stuff just to see how things work. and I want to punish them but everytime I take a game away or tv or computer they dont care I tell them they cant go play they dont care. Could you please explain to me how you wish everyone interacted with you and what ways worked well for you in school if any.
Help me understand my boys any insight would be helpful I have two daughters one is going to be 11 the other 3 and they do not have as well were not sure about he baby yet but my older daughter doesnt.
My boys have worrying problems and adhd on top and are on meds for them.
So any enlightenment from anyone willing to helpme Id be greatful it would help me a lot to try and decode my kids if I have people explain to me how you feel and see things.
Joined: 12 May 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 2,762 Location: England
07 Dec 2007, 2:31 pm
It does hurt... a great deal.
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