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24 Mar 2009, 11:55 am

I don't think I could ever desensitize myself for my own good... I know I've done it if I felt that I had to be less emotional, for example if I felt like somebody depended on me to be the rational thinker instead of bawling my eyes out every time something bad happened. I could do it for the sake of other people, I just never had enough motivation to do it for myself. :? Maybe I shifted my focus from "oh crap this problem is horrible!!" to "what can I do to make it less horrible?" And it was easier to do it when the people I cared about were at stake. Over time and with practice, it got easier for me to do this.


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24 Mar 2009, 7:41 pm

I can get upset over ANYTHING, even to the point where my mom thinks I need anger management.

But that is NOT what I need! It's all hormones! I want to damage my endocrine system so I will never feel heckled by them again.



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24 Mar 2009, 8:38 pm

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24 Mar 2009, 9:26 pm

*sigh*



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24 Mar 2009, 9:39 pm

do you have MSN miss fickle pickle
giving advice is easier over msn :)



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25 Mar 2009, 4:10 am

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:



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25 Mar 2009, 6:46 pm

Hi Ms. Pickle! How are ya doing lately?

I trust you don't mind that a got a real chuckle out of this one. Do you remember all the replies you posted on your 10 page thread concerning your appearance and being an aspie. Come on are you trying to tell us that the words you wrote showed consideration to the feelings of the people who wrote them. I don't think so. Nothing anyone wrote was good enough for you. Unless, perhaps, you felt as though we were treating you too kindly since you did mention that you can be/or are masochistic.

I do realize that my words in my reply have not been exactly pleasant. But I just don't understand the situation. With all the things you have written on this website you could give us lessons on being bitter, uncaring and sarcastic.

Yeah I already know about your answers of sobbing, etc. Ooops, have I attacked you? I don't think so.

Thanks. irene



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25 Mar 2009, 7:06 pm

irene wrote:
Hi Ms. Pickle! How are ya doing lately?

I trust you don't mind that a got a real chuckle out of this one. Do you remember all the replies you posted on your 10 page thread concerning your appearance and being an aspie. Come on are you trying to tell us that the words you wrote showed consideration to the feelings of the people who wrote them. I don't think so. Nothing anyone wrote was good enough for you. Unless, perhaps, you felt as though we were treating you too kindly since you did mention that you can be/or are masochistic.

I do realize that my words in my reply have not been exactly pleasant. But I just don't understand the situation. With all the things you have written on this website you could give us lessons on being bitter, uncaring and sarcastic.

Yeah I already know about your answers of sobbing, etc. Ooops, have I attacked you? I don't think so.

Thanks. irene


I just wish I could intentionally be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic, and know when to fire such comments at the right times. Besides, it wasn't my own decision, it was my demonic imaginary friends telling me to attack, it wasn't at my own free will as I have none.

Sorry, my brain is rotten, must be all the hentai I look at. :lol: :?



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25 Mar 2009, 7:54 pm

So if you do such a good job at being bitter, uncaring and sarcastic unintentionally why bother to do it deliberately.

Perhaps your demons could teach you how to reach your goal.

By the way I just signed by name to my last thread, but I didn't really write it. The Kitchen b***h made me do it. I swear it's true.

irene aka the kitchen b***h aka the doobie



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25 Mar 2009, 8:01 pm

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get angry! Then learn how to point out how obviously stupid everyone else is without actually using the word "stupid." Once that's done, learn how to simply turn away from pitiful people.

It's a beautiful feeling to be able to be indifferent to the misery that other people put themselves through. Let me know when you achieve that level of consciousness.



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25 Mar 2009, 8:21 pm

irene wrote:
So if you do such a good job at being bitter, uncaring and sarcastic unintentionally why bother to do it deliberately.

Perhaps your demons could teach you how to reach your goal.

By the way I just signed by name to my last thread, but I didn't really write it. The Kitchen b***h made me do it. I swear it's true.

irene aka the kitchen b***h aka the doobie


Because I don't do well under pressure, and I fail to PWN people with it, they are quicker and more sarcastic and more bitter than I.

Maybe the Kitchen b***h would love to contribute more? *coughWannabecough*

Besides, you didn't read the rest of the posts in that thread, it's not the fact that I hate the way I look, it's the fact that I wish I looked the way I felt or vice versa, but I will soon after I run away with the hippies.



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25 Mar 2009, 8:21 pm

Well from what i have heard you seem to already know how to be " Sarcastic, mean, ect... ", but have you tried to see how "nice" you can be, yes i know i'm the pathetic person talking, but seriously have considered it, as far as i have seen it's seems to beckon many other perks. Just a suggestion, i'm just spit balling. :?:


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25 Mar 2009, 8:26 pm

NomadicAssassin wrote:
Well from what i have heard you seem to already know how to be " Sarcastic, mean, ect... ", but have you tried to see how "nice" you can be, yes i know i'm the pathetic person talking, but seriously have considered it, as far as i have seen it's seems to beckon many other perks. Just a suggestion, i'm just spit balling. :?:


Naw, she's exaggerating. Just can't get over some dumb thread I posted MONTHS ago.
But I want to be the QUEEN of sarcasm! I want to have a habit of perpetual bitterness, without being provoked. I want to OWN the super smart-asses! I got to get to the top! I got to be devoid of all emotion! Just like everyone else!



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25 Mar 2009, 8:40 pm

Fnord wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get angry!


I am angry, it's just everyone laughs at me, doesn't care, or pokes fun as if I'm a harmless minnow. So I want to be unfeeling to counter their uncaring attitude.



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25 Mar 2009, 9:17 pm

Hmm, you sound like you have a lot of anger but you're channeling it inward instead of outward.

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
I want to OWN the super-smart-asses!

I'm curious, have you ever told your parents that? I don't mean to own their asses, but tell them exactly in that way that you want to own those other people's super-smart-asses?


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25 Mar 2009, 9:17 pm

See this is why I need to be calloused. So I won't be in worry and won't be so dependent, but as a sex addict, it's not possible to feel worthy.