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If I'm directly or indirectly mentioned, no.

I was wondering where this bit come from. I looked thru 3-4 pages and realised it's right on this very page, but it's been editted.

I hope Danielismyname editted becoz he realised it's not the best thing to say.

As far as I'm concerned, you had an affair with her while in an on-and-off relationship with RainSong, and then you dumped her. She might leave a scar on you, but you left a much bigger wound on her. Not a scar, a wound that is in a slow healing process.

Psychopath might not be the wise word to mention on the forum, however, considering this is the "haven" and she is still hurting and healing without a partner to support her (on the contrary to you), would you show some tolerance and just leave her alone?

Ah, no. I spoke to her for a year as friends, and that's it (that was the year of "on and off" with RainSong), then it progressed a little further when I wasn't with anyone, and everyone knew, RainSong included. Yeah, I dumped her, but the reason for that is private, and I would have dumped anyone for the same reason (if that reason wasn't there, blue_bean and I would still be together). People get dumped, and my reason was as sound as any. So, I'm also having affairs with people? God.

I actually haven't said anything about her (until I'm mentioned indirectly), yet I'm constantly mentioned (mainly indirectly). I'll respond if I'm spoken about, and that's a natural thing to do. So, if I'm left alone, I'll leave people alone. Easy.

Probably best to speak of things you actually know the full details about, melbi (also, not private things concerning others).

(To add, I don't ask for or want any support from RainSong [or others] now in regards to this or things, and I rarely speak of this, as frankly, I can deal with it on my own and it's of no concern to us. I don't want to burden her with my troubles also.)

Please stop this. This is not a thread to carry on personal disputes. This is for venting, not fighting.

Exactly.

Private and personal things should remain there, in private (whether directly or indirectly).

This thread is for venting in order to prevent escalation. Unless you actually have a need to use this thread, instead of actually coming in and commenting where it is clearly unwanted, then stay away. This is The Haven. Treat the concept with respect. And this goes for everyone.

However, wouldn't mentioning someone, calling them a name, when you know they'd most likely read it, be contrary to this thread? I don't think this is a place to call people whatever you want and be free of any reprisal or questioning.

Indirectly calling someone a name goes against the forum rules (which this thread comes under).

See:

You will note I made no personal attack, and it was I who was insulted ("charming psychopath").

She didn't mention your name. I knew nothing of this dispute, or of your relationship. Or at least until now. And I have no desire to get involved unless either of you choose to escalate. So don't.

No, I don't either, but I'd like that one rule clarified, thanks.

"Indirect" means what its dictionary term means, right? Direct would mean mentioning a name, whereas indirect would mean refraining from mentioning one, but making it obvious to the individual in question (it was obvious to me).

I suppose I should just bring it up with a moderator and give them the details from here on (i.e., it's obvious to me for this reason), and I will. I'm sick of the indirect insults and emotional manipulation.

Dear Me,

Be better. That is all.

Sincerely,
You

Dear two certain forum members,

Quit arguing about personal crap in this thread.

Sincerely, Asp-Z.

Dear Myself, I'm quite glad that many things are okay yet, I find some aspects of the world a tadbit odd but, I'm going forward neverless..


Sincerely,
Me

You're welcome.

(Finally getting the courage to even read to reply)
I wasn't even thinking of you when I typed that (I've been obsessed with lots of people I've never spoken about). Just my way of saying I think I'm going to be vulnerable to those types if I don't get help killing my monster.



Dear God if such exists or any f*****g entity from above for f***s sake!! !! !! !!

I want peace in my mind. No more erratically jumping in and out of the pit of self-doubt (I f****d up everything and I'm meant to die), and in and out of the padded room of paranoia and extreme anger and victimisation. Please put me someplace in the middle of the two. Both of these places make me want to die and go to hell, and I'll never get to desperately ask you for help like this if I go there.

One of your silly fleas on earth,
Blue_bean

My mistake.

I suppose you can see how I saw such, as the same was said in one of the last PMs I got from you (I've only heard you refer to me as such, no one else from your past), and I was the last guy to "cross your path". It's the logical sequence of events (which aren't always right, but they work more than not).

I'll question from now on, rather than assume.

O, and perhaps to help some, just say no to people who'd continually ask for things from you, as that's what a psychopath will do; once they realize they can't get anything from you, they'll move on to the next person and take from them (until they've got all they can, and then they'll move on). It's always physical things rather than emotional things, mainly money and sex. Luckily, only a few people in a hundred are like this, so the chances of running into even one in this context are very slim.

Dear Kumo,

please pee on the right spot. I'll give you as many treat as you want if you do. Also stop pooing on the doorway, especially when the door is closed and is about to be opened from the other side. Balcony, pee pee and poo poo on the balcony, and you'll have endless treat.... pee pee and poo poo on the balcony, and you'll have endless treat....pee pee and poo poo on the balcony, and you'll have endless treat....

Last words, I love you! You've been a wonderful companion!

Your owner,
Melbi