Seriously, why is there so much Misogyny on WrongPlanet?!

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29 Mar 2023, 3:56 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Spiders reject by eating the suitor.

Actually, they would always eat the suitor.

Mother Nature at her finest. :lol:



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29 Mar 2023, 4:02 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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The male animal in the animal kingdom dosent hate the female that won’t have sex with him.Neither does he attack her.
He just wanders off and tries his luck elsewhere.


Uhmm… no, not all species, the truth is not that shiny.

Male chimps do systemically kill female chimps of a rival tribe if they refuse to join them.

Check the Gombe chimp civil war, after group A killed every male in group B, they started subduing the females and killing whover refused to join group A. Chimps are so...."cute".

Don't get me started on the dolphins.

Chimps are our relatives.Of course they act crappy. :lol:
I should have said “most.”
I’ve yet to see a rooster attack a hen or a Gander flog a Goose.
And insects eat everything.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qkzwG2 ... hannel=BBC

Well that one spider did cut in. :D


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29 Mar 2023, 4:51 pm

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^ Since you have sex with males, you know exactly what it’s like for a female. Got it! :roll:

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29 Mar 2023, 6:24 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Spiders reject by eating the suitor.

Actually, they would always eat the suitor.


Certain predatory insects like Mantids (praying mantis) and arachnids like spiders and scorpions, the females eat the male after mating.
The biological imperative is that the male's sole purpose is to mate and once they made their contribution they serve no other purpose, Their final act is provide the growing babies nourishment. The ultimate sacrifice.



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29 Mar 2023, 9:14 pm

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Of course, a mod could always edit those posts and just remove the insults, but personally, I prefer seeing the whole post removed as it sends a clearer message that a wrong thing has been done.


That happens only if you aren't a skunk.
I'm not joking.

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Your imagination is a bit off, at least in my case. Getting the mods to punish the abusers does make me feel better, but I'd feel even better than that if the abuse didn't happen in the first place, because when it has happened, it has already done damage. Putting a band aid on doesn't make a wound go away either, no?


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29 Mar 2023, 9:17 pm

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I think part of the problem is the campaign of report spamming.
There's a campaign? :scratch:
First I've heard of it, and I get to read the reports made.


What? A Campaign? I bet I can tell you who has reported most of my posts - it was me :twisted:


There have been ppl openly advocating report spamming.
No names. :mrgreen:
I believe I did mention that it would simply make a lot more work for the mods, hence not a good idea.
I could find the post(s), assuming they aren't in the dungeon.



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29 Mar 2023, 9:23 pm

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Are you an autistic guy/amab with accompanying hormones and the lack of social skills to obtain the sex you're biologically wired to seek?

If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.


Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.

IMO.


Agreed.

As I said above, men have trouble understanding women...
But women have trouble understanding men, also.



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29 Mar 2023, 9:26 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
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Are you an autistic guy/amab with accompanying hormones and the lack of social skills to obtain the sex you're biologically wired to seek?

If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.

Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.

IMO.


How much more empathy should be shown?

At what point does sexual frustration start to excuse misogyny?

A group can't really seek unity with members who choose to be toxic. As long as that choice is being made there's no point in seeking unity. In that context unity is synonymous with forcing everyone else to tolerate their toxicity.


Balance; somewhere in the middle.

Incels need to learn not to be as*holes. But others also need to accept that autistic incel males are simply going to have some complaints about themselves and their sexless lives.

It’s a give/take thing - neither side should expect 100% of what they want or how they think communications should go.

IMO.


I believe most psychologists would agree that venting is preferable to "bottling the emotions inside".



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29 Mar 2023, 9:32 pm

^ There are places for incels to vent outside of WP.



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29 Mar 2023, 9:33 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
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Are you an autistic guy/amab with accompanying hormones and the lack of social skills to obtain the sex you're biologically wired to seek?

If not, then you cannot possibly comprehend why so many autistic guys vent their frustrations about these things.

Perhaps, if you want autistic unity, you should be more sympathetic to their complaints rather than suggest they shouldn't have them because you don't like them.

IMO.


How much more empathy should be shown?

At what point does sexual frustration start to excuse misogyny?

A group can't really seek unity with members who choose to be toxic. As long as that choice is being made there's no point in seeking unity. In that context unity is synonymous with forcing everyone else to tolerate their toxicity.


Balance; somewhere in the middle.

Incels need to learn not to be as*holes. But others also need to accept that autistic incel males are simply going to have some complaints about themselves and their sexless lives.

It’s a give/take thing - neither side should expect 100% of what they want or how they think communications should go.

IMO.


The problem comes from how often the complaint boils down to blaming others for the complainant not receiving the sex they feel entitled to. The wording of the complaints regularly implies a sense of entitlement even if it's later denied.

People want to vent their bitter resentments but don't like being recognized as bitter and resentful (even when venting those resentments is their main topic to post about) but how the f**k else do they expect to be viewed? :lol:


I haven't seen many posters that have a sense of "entitlement".
Most are expressing their frustration, loneliness, and a lack of meaning in their lives.
I have no sympathy for those who disparage women as a result of their frustration, however.



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29 Mar 2023, 9:36 pm

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Maybe there are just a lot more guys on the internet because girls are busy getting as much sex as they want ? :chin:


EEP!! ! 8O



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29 Mar 2023, 9:37 pm

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There have been ppl openly advocating report spamming.


I'm not sure I know what you mean by report spamming. A post can only be reported once so no spamming can be done on a single post.
Do you mean some of a members posts are reported by a 'coalition' who target posts regardless of content?
I don't really see this as an issue except as you say - more work for the mods.
Seeing as no one knows if any of their posts has been reported or just spotted by a mod it's not something worth living in your head rent-free.


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29 Mar 2023, 9:37 pm

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Maybe there are just a lot more guys on the internet because girls are busy getting as much sex as they want ? :chin:


I think there's more women on the internet than it appears, it's just some of them have learned how to avoid crafty buggers creeping into their DMs. :mrgreen:


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29 Mar 2023, 9:38 pm

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Seeing as no one knows if any of their posts has been reported or just spotted by a mod it's not something worth living in your head rent-free.


I report every single one of my posts just to check if anyone else has. :mrgreen:


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29 Mar 2023, 9:40 pm

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Seeing as no one knows if any of their posts has been reported or just spotted by a mod it's not something worth living in your head rent-free.


I report every single one of my posts just to check if anyone else has. :mrgreen:
I make it a point to report all your posts, and yet, you’re still here. :chin:



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29 Mar 2023, 9:42 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
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Seeing as no one knows if any of their posts has been reported or just spotted by a mod it's not something worth living in your head rent-free.


I report every single one of my posts just to check if anyone else has. :mrgreen:
I make it a point to report all your posts, and yet, you’re still here. :chin:


Doesn't that make us a coalition? :mrgreen:

That means the skunk was right. 8O


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