RANT: why can't people READ?

Page 3 of 4 [ 51 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3, 4  Next

mitharatowen
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Oct 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,675
Location: Arizona

23 Oct 2009, 10:35 am

Aimless wrote:
I offer a different view it's only because I want to explore the idea further and I get frustrated when someone gets freaked out.

I totally agree with this. I like to explore and discuss *everything*... many people just don't seem to understand that and think I'm a negative person who just likes to argue because I propose alternate views :?



Tim_Tex
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Jul 2004
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 46,691
Location: Houston, Texas

23 Oct 2009, 10:36 am

I just like to listen.


_________________
Who’s better at math than a robot? They’re made of math!


saywhatyamean
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

User avatar

Joined: 31 Aug 2009
Age: 58
Gender: Female
Posts: 148

23 Oct 2009, 11:24 am

I agree with M I also love a good discussion/some would call it argument. As a rule I don't do small talk but I do love a good discussion. One question I have is how this is ever construed as rude? Has anyone noticed that you are only ever considered rude if another person has different ideas to you. What a crock! If you happen to have an agreement you all of a sudden turn from being rude to being a sensible worthwhile person.................what ego's people must have.

I like to go deep into things, not just skim over the surface, and by doing this I have unearthed some very one eyed people in my life. Those are people who just can't be bothered to think past what they already think they know. Or are so tied up in defending their own opinion for some emotional reason that they are threatened by someone that is an open and honest inquirer.

I always listen to people and consider their ideas, unless I get a wiff of someone with a very ugly agenda. I hear people out because you never know what you are going to learn from that encounter. I don't think you need to take everything as gosple but I always consider it. Then they get some of my opinions on the same stuff. Thats if I think it's worth it. Sometimes I just know if I open my mouth I will be there all day, so I don't even start. LOL



Tim_Tex
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Jul 2004
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 46,691
Location: Houston, Texas

23 Oct 2009, 1:08 pm

I have noticed that people tend to be more polarized in their beliefs, whatever they are.


_________________
Who’s better at math than a robot? They’re made of math!


Aimless
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 1 Apr 2009
Age: 69
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,187

23 Oct 2009, 2:46 pm

saywhatyamean wrote:

Quote:
I have unearthed some very one eyed people in my life.


:? 8O :lmao: :shameonyou:


_________________
Detach ed


southwestforests
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Jul 2009
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,138
Location: A little ways south of the river

23 Oct 2009, 5:02 pm

X_Parasite wrote:
Seriously, it would've been more coherent to randomly shout the word 'cows'.".

:lol: :wtg:


_________________
"Every time you don't follow your inner guidance,
you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense of spiritual deadness."
- Shakti Gawain


Tim_Tex
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Jul 2004
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 46,691
Location: Houston, Texas

23 Oct 2009, 5:03 pm

What about "bunnies!!"?


_________________
Who’s better at math than a robot? They’re made of math!


southwestforests
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Jul 2009
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,138
Location: A little ways south of the river

23 Oct 2009, 5:08 pm

mitharatowen wrote:
pezar wrote:
All people see is what they want to see, it seems, or they speed read and only read part of what you're saying, then a flamewar ensues. And they absolutely can NOT be dissuaded from their initial assessment.

QTF. I have experienced this many times on other forums as well. Its rediculous the kind of conclusions people jump to and then for some reason when you try to clarify or explain your position, it makes them angry and/or feel even more justified in their irrational assumptions. I do not understand this at all.


I would expect that their ego can not handle being incorrect.


_________________
"Every time you don't follow your inner guidance,
you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense of spiritual deadness."
- Shakti Gawain


saywhatyamean
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

User avatar

Joined: 31 Aug 2009
Age: 58
Gender: Female
Posts: 148

24 Oct 2009, 11:24 am

Hi Aimless,

Sorry, do you not understand what I am trying to say? I realise you are possibly not from Australia so may not understand the expressions I used? Or perhaps I was not literal enough? I don't actually mean finding people with only 1 eye in the earth. It's an expression a one eyed person is someone like we are discussing, who sees things very narrowly and cannot take another opinion into account. Unearthed in this context means find

Or are you using humor? If so a big raspberry (not literally)to you!! !!LOL

Hi Southwestforrest and Tim Tex,

If you were refering to my comments I would prefer "PUPPIES" thanks all the same LOL



Aimless
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 1 Apr 2009
Age: 69
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,187

24 Oct 2009, 3:41 pm

OK :oops: I thought you were referring to male anatomy. I'm not familiar with the term but I didn't take offense, I thought you were making a joke and I was just going along. That's why with the emoticons I pretended confusion,shock,laughter and then a no no (in jest). With no body language available it's a wonder there isn't more misunderstandings online. :)


_________________
Detach ed


protest_the_hero
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Nov 2008
Age: 187
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,011

24 Oct 2009, 6:50 pm

I support involuntary sterilization of those of undesirable DNA a.k.a. eugenics. As to that little dilemna of yours, if we did have eugenics, we could have a future where people like that didn't exist :D



CockneyRebel
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 51
Gender: Male
Posts: 121,237
Location: In my own little country

24 Oct 2009, 7:44 pm

I know what you're getting at, so I apologize for overreacting. :)


_________________
The Family Schlager


MissConstrue
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 4 Feb 2008
Gender: Female
Posts: 17,052
Location: MO

24 Oct 2009, 9:10 pm

I have to agree with SG on this.

Tell them to go back to England or even better Sweden where they can censor themselves.... :lol:


_________________
I live as I choose or I will not live at all.
~Delores O’Riordan


Tollorin
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Jun 2009
Age: 44
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,178
Location: Sherbrooke, Québec, Canada

27 Oct 2009, 9:03 pm

It could be avoided. Nothing forbid to take a forum with smart and decent peoples.



tweety_fan
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Oct 2007
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,555

28 Oct 2009, 5:40 am

It is totally irritating when you say something and people freak out because they think you said something you didn't even say.



ScratchMonkey
Sea Gull
Sea Gull

User avatar

Joined: 26 Jan 2007
Age: 65
Gender: Male
Posts: 232

28 Oct 2009, 1:54 pm

When you write a forum post, most who read it will never reply. Write it for them, not for those who just need to say something in response.