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bewarethebob
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13 Jul 2010, 12:30 am

JakeGrover wrote:
Ok. I'll try my best to be a man. But, if I fail, I'll just take the other way out. The easy way out.


If you are tying to be a man, then you can never fail. no matter what. it is impossible my younger friend!
Im glad you are going to try. wake up tommorow, It will be a brand new day, and you will be one step closer to being a man.
Im proud of you buddy. Just promise me you will try, and you dont need to worry about failing. I PROMISE you.



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13 Jul 2010, 12:56 am

Bro, you're 12 and smarter than me. That's something to feel good about.

I'm writing this half asleep, so I'm sorry, but don't kill yourself. Nothing good can come of it.



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13 Jul 2010, 12:59 am

Please dont do anything to yourself jake. I really wish I could help you. To the kids who bully you in school just ignore them they will get bored and quit picking on you. Things get better, trust me. If you want to talk you can PM me....sorry im not much of a help.

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13 Jul 2010, 12:59 am

Look up Gives Me Hope on Google, and go to the first link. Please.

Don't kill yourself. I don't even know you, but I refuse to stand by and just let you die. It's not fair. I want to help save you. This website helped save me.



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13 Jul 2010, 1:03 am

JakeGrover wrote:
You know what?!?! Why bother living?!?! It has nothing to offer. I'm never going to amount to anything. Let's just end it all. What's the point.


I've been in moods like that when I was your age, but those of us with AS are creatures of logic, and my logical mind always prevailed.

Here are the things it tells me....

1. People kill themselves to escape situations, but this makes no sense because you cannot feel a sense of escape or relief when you are dead.

2. You don't really want to die, you just want to be out of a crappy situation.

3. You are in the physical process of becoming and adult and the hormones which drive this process cause small problems to seem difficult, and large problems to seem like the end of the world.

4. It's highly unlikely that your situation or mood will persist. Your situation and perception will change as you age and time progresses. The universe is not a static place.

So you see, killing ones self is illogical. Even if you have no control over your situation, the universe and time alone will eventually take you out of it. It is like traveling through space. You travel through rough patches and travel through pleasant patches.



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13 Jul 2010, 1:14 am

Well, I stumbled onto this discussion and I am so sorry that you feel like ending it all. Let me ask you--is there somebody who DEPENDS on you--a pet perhaps--who would be lost if you were gone? Think about them. They need you.



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