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Zara
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12 Dec 2010, 3:04 pm

There's nothing to regret here. You're hurting and want a release.

You don't need to keep all this to yourself. Try to explain yourself, what are you thinking, think about our concern for you.

So what if you sound like a fool in the process? Yes, maybe there isn't much anyone here can do for you but listen. But some of are trying anyway. Sometimes that's all you can get.

If you keep hoping for something better that isn't going to happen then you'll keep feeling worse.

If you're sad, angry, fearful, or suicidal, then get it out in the open. That's the only way to start dealing with it.


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12 Dec 2010, 3:11 pm

hale_bopp, if you are feeling better now, or embarrassed about posting this or something, please come and tell us. for us to see your posts just randomly deleted is worrisome.


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12 Dec 2010, 3:30 pm

SaNcheNuSS wrote:
she deleted her posts because she feels ashamed. She runs from everything.


Not helping.
Take the antagonistic attitude elsewhere.


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12 Dec 2010, 3:31 pm

Let's not throw assumptions out. She's in New Zealand, and I'm 10,000+ miles away in California. We can't know her motives ATM.



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12 Dec 2010, 3:43 pm

She's probably been asleep (if I am working out the time differences correctly)

Anyway I hope you are feeling better halebopp. I have been on and off this site and others for a few years and think you are a very cool person



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12 Dec 2010, 5:36 pm

Thanks. I'm trying to put on a brave face and get on with life.
Be a better person than I am.

I deleted the posts, because yes I am ashamed and no longer usually seek help on forums.



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12 Dec 2010, 5:46 pm

meh



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12 Dec 2010, 5:48 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Thanks. I'm trying to put on a brave face and get on with life.
Be a better person than I am.

I deleted the posts, because yes I am ashamed and no longer usually seek help on forums.


There's no shame is asking for some help. It's usually pride that holds some back though...

If you're feeling better then I am glad. Take care.


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12 Dec 2010, 5:49 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Thanks. I'm trying to put on a brave face and get on with life.

There have been times I have kept moving even while crying ...

Keep coming along!


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12 Dec 2010, 6:00 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Thanks. I'm trying to put on a brave face and get on with life.
Be a better person than I am.

I deleted the posts, because yes I am ashamed and no longer usually seek help on forums.


Thank you for letting us know it was only the posts you deleted.

We all have hard times. There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.

Judging by the posts you've written and the videos you made, I think you are a much better person than you give yourself credit for. Get some rest. Be kinder to yourself and please keep posting here.

Take care,

Lars


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12 Dec 2010, 6:45 pm

thanks so much for coming back and talking to us, just so we don't get overwrought. props to you for being so strong!


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13 Dec 2010, 2:59 am

I'm confident things will get better for you.



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13 Dec 2010, 1:52 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Thanks. I'm trying to put on a brave face and get on with life.
Be a better person than I am.

I deleted the posts, because yes I am ashamed and no longer usually seek help on forums.


I hope in the forums here is one place where you don't have to put on a brave face. I'm sorry if sometimes people make you feel that way.



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14 Dec 2010, 4:05 am

I don't consider forums a safe place to disclse personal problems. I should see a therapist or something.. i've got noone



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14 Dec 2010, 4:18 am

Therapists can be good. You do have us, we're all here for each other. :)



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14 Dec 2010, 8:55 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I don't consider forums a safe place to disclse personal problems. I should see a therapist or something.. i've got noone
Yeaaah the forums can only help so much, You should definitely see a therapist rather than try to tackle everything on your own.