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22 Apr 2011, 12:54 pm

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Oh *worries to self about previous actions*

why are you worried about it? it seems like a good thing.


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22 Apr 2011, 1:16 pm

gailryder17 wrote:
Oh *worries to self about previous actions*


Worrying about things is the worst thing to do. Even if it was a bad/wrong choice, your worrying about it won't fix it and will end up making any repercussions, if any, worse.

There's a saying that you should do well to learn: "It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission."


So, don't sweat anything...especially don't sweat the awkward stuff. Laugh about it. Laughing about things is a great way to disarm such things.


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22 Apr 2011, 1:22 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
gailryder17 wrote:
Oh *worries to self about previous actions*

why are you worried about it? it seems like a good thing.


Wait a minute, WHAT'S THE GOOD THING!?



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22 Apr 2011, 1:40 pm

gailryder17 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
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Oh *worries to self about previous actions*

why are you worried about it? it seems like a good thing.


Wait a minute, WHAT'S THE GOOD THING!?

the good thing was that you showed your feelings to the person a little bit, if they noticed.


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22 Apr 2011, 3:03 pm

*faints due to confusion*



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22 Apr 2011, 4:26 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
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I didn't mean to presume you were flirting either. Just the whole "not letting you leave" seemed like you were coming on to her. It could be viewed as stereotypical playful and flirty behavior. For you it may have just been instinct to be near someone you like and being "cute" with her (also which could be seen as flirty).


Nah, I see your viewpoint, it's just I wasn't really sure what I was doing. BTW, what does "coming on to someone" mean?

coming onto them means hitting on them/picking them up/trying to get with someone, like a person would do if they wanted to have a girlfriend.


Oh does it? Shows how experienced I am with that sort of thing.



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22 Apr 2011, 4:30 pm

can someone please explain to me WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?



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22 Apr 2011, 5:18 pm

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can someone please explain to me WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?


I think people are saying its a good thing that you have hinted/told her that you like her. It is a bad thing she is moving at the end of the school year however.



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22 Apr 2011, 10:47 pm

Although now that she knows, I feel like things are a little awkward.