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Besides, I think Fnord's okay with it anyway. He doesn't let insults get to him, which is an awesome skill in my opinion.
I did say that fnord was out of line with his comments(reread point two in case you´ve missed it) but her reply wasnt appropriate and she knows that
Yes, his comments weren't supportive enough for you. But you didn't regard them as personal attacks.
Thats because he didnt go as far as calling her douchebag several times and telling her to f*** herself.
He is a douchebag and he should go f**k himself. I doubt anyone else will want to, so it's up to him now isn't it.
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Its not about what he said about that thread its about the fact that if we let a thread like that happen several others will appear and things will get out of hand which is what has happened in the past and why Im so "oversensitive" about it.
Again you are resorting to insults towards him. See why I said that her personal attacks are out of line?.
I encouraged her to try to sort things out with him by PM or something and all I got is its fine Ive already insulted him elsewhere so Im letting her know thats not the way of dealing with things here.
The rules clearly state that you cant do a thread like the one you posted and a member told you that, which you decided to ignore.
As I said previously it wasnt me the one that noticed the thread and was concerned about it. Im just the one that took the time to contact you about it because the other mod was going to sleep.
Your oldest son isnt a member as far as I know so calling him a douchebag isnt a personal attack towards a member, calling fnord a douchebag is.
As for the pms I asked you to approach him in a private manner explaining your issues and trying to sort things with him and said I could remove his attacks if you pointed them out, you decided to do none of those things.
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Besides, I think Fnord's okay with it anyway. He doesn't let insults get to him, which is an awesome skill in my opinion.
I did say that fnord was out of line with his comments(reread point two in case you´ve missed it) but her reply wasnt appropriate and she knows that
Whah whah what I know that. Oh Fnord, I'm so sorry, I aplogize, would you like my firstborn? (You could actually have hime by the way)
Fnord is like me. Somewhat, I think. Insults are NOT the end of the world. What strangers on a forum type, does NOT shape our lives. I can deal with Fnord just fine. He's a sink or swim get out there do it and suck it up type of person that I am. Do you really think you are emotionally prepared to be in the middle of a shouting match between us both?
I may call him a douchebag right now and tell him I love him tomorrow. Thats just LIFE. Basically, and let me point this out to you, calling him a douchebag means that his comment or statements seem to be particularly douchy to me at the time. It doesn't mean I think hes red and hanging on some lady's shower rod!
If I tell him I love him tomorrow (which I have done) does not mean I want to marry and procreate with him. It simply means I agree totally with what he's saying.
Jesus Christ honey, words aren't the end of the world, nor is this forum. Grow up and grow a pair, will you? Neither I nor Fnord (I'm pretty sure) are really deeply offended by either of our comments. Whatever emotion I feel about it goes when I click the Index link above. The same is probably true for him.
He pissed me off. So what? I wouldnt give a rodents hind end if someone posted a thread saying "Olive Oil Mom pissed me off" (Yeah now you're just gonna do it to be funny aren't you, you know who you are) I mean come on. What kind of actual shame is that? Really? If you can get shamed so much from a freaking forum thread saying that you pissed someone off, you got more problems than AS there!
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Besides, I think Fnord's okay with it anyway. He doesn't let insults get to him, which is an awesome skill in my opinion.
I did say that fnord was out of line with his comments(reread point two in case you´ve missed it) but her reply wasnt appropriate and she knows that
Yes, his comments weren't supportive enough for you. But you didn't regard them as personal attacks.
Thats because he didnt go as far as calling her douchebag several times and telling her to f*** herself.
She on the other hand has created a thread for publicly shaming him that had to be removed and called him a douchebag several times.
I encouraged her to try to sort things out with him by PM or something and all I got is its fine Ive already insulted him elsewhere so Im letting her know thats not the way of dealing with things here.
Edit: I believe my move is pretty clear. I was giving her a chance to explain herself, she choose to continue the personal attacks so all posts containing personal attacks have now been removed
She tried to make an anti-Fnord thread? Interesting. Fair enough. I still consider Fnords comments to be a personal attack even if they didn't go as far as swearing, though I can't say I really mind.
Not anti-Fnord, I like Fnord and usually agree with him. I just said "Fnord pissed me off" as the title of it and called him some names in there. Nothing MAJOR though.
Fnord has a life. I doubt it would bother him.
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Besides, I think Fnord's okay with it anyway. He doesn't let insults get to him, which is an awesome skill in my opinion.
I did say that fnord was out of line with his comments(reread point two in case you´ve missed it) but her reply wasnt appropriate and she knows that
How do you know what I know? Just cause you said it to me I know it now? That didn't work with my high school algebra teacher. it won't work with you!
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Besides, I think Fnord's okay with it anyway. He doesn't let insults get to him, which is an awesome skill in my opinion.
I did say that fnord was out of line with his comments(reread point two in case you´ve missed it) but her reply wasnt appropriate and she knows that
Whah whah what I know that. Oh Fnord, I'm so sorry, I aplogize, would you like my firstborn? (You could actually have hime by the way)
Fnord is like me. Somewhat, I think. Insults are NOT the end of the world. What strangers on a forum type, does NOT shape our lives. I can deal with Fnord just fine. He's a sink or swim get out there do it and suck it up type of person that I am. Do you really think you are emotionally prepared to be in the middle of a shouting match between us both?
I may call him a douchebag right now and tell him I love him tomorrow. Thats just LIFE. Basically, and let me point this out to you, calling him a douchebag means that his comment or statements seem to be particularly douchy to me at the time. It doesn't mean I think hes red and hanging on some lady's shower rod!
If I tell him I love him tomorrow (which I have done) does not mean I want to marry and procreate with him. It simply means I agree totally with what he's saying.
Jesus Christ honey, words aren't the end of the world, nor is this forum. Grow up and grow a pair, will you? Neither I nor Fnord (I'm pretty sure) are really deeply offended by either of our comments. Whatever emotion I feel about it goes when I click the Index link above. The same is probably true for him.
He pissed me off. So what? I wouldnt give a rodents hind end if someone posted a thread saying "Olive Oil Mom pissed me off" (Yeah now you're just gonna do it to be funny aren't you, you know who you are) I mean come on. What kind of actual shame is that? Really? If you can get shamed so much from a freaking forum thread saying that you pissed someone off, you got more problems than AS there!
Im not trying to get in the middle of a shouting match between you both.
I was just letting you know that said shouting match has to be done without personal attacks or the ones doing them will be warned about their behaviour.
Im aware that words on a screen cant hurt us and if I wasnt I wouldnt be able to work with members that lose their temper when they are contacted about their behaviour.
Again I feel the need to point out that Im not the one that was concerned by your behavior and Im just the one that contacted you about it so half of that posts about me being childish doesnt make sense.
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Besides, I think Fnord's okay with it anyway. He doesn't let insults get to him, which is an awesome skill in my opinion.
I did say that fnord was out of line with his comments(reread point two in case you´ve missed it) but her reply wasnt appropriate and she knows that
How do you know what I know? Just cause you said it to me I know it now? That didn't work with my high school algebra teacher. it won't work with you!
You are familiar with the rules and you reported a member for personal attacks not long ago so I think its safe to assume that you know that personal attacks arent welcome here.
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I know. a vagina contacted you. OK. Whatever. Why don't you do the whole big bad mod thing and lock it now? You can do that can't you? Oh, post a last post so you get the last word in it please.
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