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KagamineLen
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21 Jul 2013, 12:04 am

Masturbation can be healthy.

But it should be avoided when it comes with feelings of guilt and shame attached to it.

Healthy sexuality comes in part from knowing one's own personal boundaries, and it comes in part as an extension of one's spiritual and emotional well-being. It is different from person to person. Everybody has to figure out what works best for himself. But shame-based sexuality is never good, and it has a nasty tendency to feed into itself, and it can be extremely addictive and destructive.

Needless to say, I don't think that the one-size-fits-all response of, "Go for it," is applicable. That might work for some people, but any person's sexuality is as individual as individuals.

KMB6167
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21 Jul 2013, 12:58 am

Guys, my evil side (jacking off and porn) has gotten me again. But my resistance will never give up.

Here is another poem

I am having trouble
lord help me
today, my evil side got me
he made me not see

Lord I am in danger
I need you now
You can get rid of it
But I just don't know how

My resistance has weaken
My resistance has failed
My evil side had got me
He stabbed me with a nail

Come and help me
I am in danger
Come and rescue me
powerful ranger

I trust you so much
My Evil side is being too rough
Make it go away by your touch
Resistance to masturbation is tough.

:oops:

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21 Jul 2013, 1:20 am

Like I said man you will never stop having temptation. You either have to decide it is ok and just do it like other people say and know it is ok. Or you need to tell your parents and get yourself help.

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21 Jul 2013, 12:30 pm

Just as a precautionary question:

shouldn't this thread be in the appropriate age defined category? if he is 17,he is still a minor.

adults should be wary of giving minors (who are not your children/wards) advice related to the minor's personal sexual habits if you are not both properly licensed AND legally hired by the minors guardian (or otherwise legally permitted by a pubic position such as school counselor, public health professional, etc).

if this is not a concern on the Internet then please forgive me for being an alarmist. I speak out of concern for all of you.

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22 Jul 2013, 4:13 pm

KMB6167 wrote:

Fight my Bad Side

I have a problem
diagnosed by god
My evil side called pornography
He looks like me only he is a fraud.

He caused me to jack off
he held me back
he messed up my room
and made my bed go clickity clack

My evil impostor
used my money
to buy something on clips4sale
and make porn sweet as honey

But it is now over
It is time to fight
screw you pornography
GET OUT OF MY SIGHT!

LOL! You really are obsessed! Have you ever thought that maybe the fact that you stigmatize it so much is part of the problem? It's only a demon because you choose to treat it like one........

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22 Jul 2013, 4:18 pm

KMB6167 wrote:

Guys, my evil side (jacking off and porn) has gotten me again. But my resistance will never give up.

Here is another poem

I am having trouble
lord help me
today, my evil side got me
he made me not see

Lord I am in danger
I need you now
You can get rid of it
But I just don't know how

My resistance has weaken
My resistance has failed
My evil side had got me
He stabbed me with a nail

Come and help me
I am in danger
Come and rescue me
powerful ranger

I trust you so much
My Evil side is being too rough
Make it go away by your touch
Resistance to masturbation is tough.

:oops:

:oops:

LMFAO! These are pure gold! You know you've got talent.........

I bet if you let yourself stop feeling obsessive guilt about your natural impulses, you could actually put that talent to better use. :wink:

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22 Jul 2013, 5:19 pm

Metalwolf wrote:

KagamineLen wrote:

murbark wrote:

He's a 17 year old male. Unless you've been there, you cannot possibly understand the hormonal firestorm hes experiencing. If there's no sexual outlet, thats where problems arise. \he's doing what he needs to do to handle his biology...he just needs to know that it's OK.

I almost got carpal tunnel syndrome at that age.

Exactly. That's even more of a reason why now is a time to focus on forming a healthy fantasy life instead of stuffing the brain with crass and degrading pornography. Porn can become habitual during the teen years, and that can extend well into adulthood if one is not careful. I am speaking from personal experience; porn is not a great outlet.

Definitely true. Plus porn can make a person dissatisfied with a real woman, because she's not perfectly airbrushed, perky, or willing to do the degrading things that the person might have come to associate with sexual release.

That kind of person -who's training/trained himself to avoid it or get over it- earns a big kudos from me.

To KMB6167, keep it up, you're doing what is good, even though it might be hard at times. The secular world will be calling you a fool, they will even degrade or make fun of Christianity, but don't let that stop you. The secular world is hung up on sex, acting as if it's the most important thing and acting as if people are little more then mindless beasts who run on instinct. If that were true, I would be laying with both men and women, because that is who I am attracted to. But we aren't, and even the scientists of old have said, that man's reasoning to overcome his baser instincts, is what separates him from animals.

Whether or not you have sex with women is up to you (because that's the bit that you're really trying to repress - not the attraction to males because you can get married and fulfil that.) Just don't feel bad about wanting to sleep with women or look down women who do. You know, nature is what it is; if you want to try and 'transcend' it with spirituality, then that's only your choice.

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23 Jul 2013, 1:04 am

FlanMaster wrote:

Just as a precautionary question:

shouldn't this thread be in the appropriate age defined category? if he is 17,he is still a minor.

adults should be wary of giving minors (who are not your children/wards) advice related to the minor's personal sexual habits if you are not both properly licensed AND legally hired by the minors guardian (or otherwise legally permitted by a pubic position such as school counselor, public health professional, etc).

if this is not a concern on the Internet then please forgive me for being an alarmist. I speak out of concern for all of you.

If he's 17 he could access the adult discussion section, I think thats a better spot for this thread to be honest. :arrow:

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