done just done could really use a hug.

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I don't have documents either. I don't have research papers available immediately to quote. I don't think this is the place for that, anyway. It's the Haven---where feelings are paramount over intellectualism (or pseudointellectualism).

We're not doing research papers here. We're talking about our feelings. We don't have to credit sources for our feelings. Forget about this study and that study (unless you feel it's relevant for you).

Perhaps we should be going for our Master's here, with all the scholarliness. Where's the professor to grade our papers?

I'm not a huggy-huggy guy---here's a cyber "pat on the back."

I don't have documents either. I don't have research papers available immediately to quote. I don't think this is the place for that, anyway. It's the Haven---where feelings are paramount over intellectualism (or pseudointellectualism).

We're not doing research papers here. We're talking about our feelings. We don't have to credit sources for our feelings. Forget about this study and that study (unless you feel the study is relevant to you).

Perhaps we should be going for our Master's here, with all the scholarliness. Where's the professor to grade our papers?

Sorry for double-posting.

which is why i feel i can only post in this thread inside haven.

I enjoy talking with people. I had been enjoying this forum since dec 2013. I tend to get carried away and forget my place be it here or at work. I am not a person, I shouldn't speak, yet I see others talking or they talk to me and all my mental thought not to speak seems to evaporate. after work I feel horrible and fearful.

I tend to find more topics in Politics, Philosophy, and Religion and love and dating.

Politics, Philosophy, and Religion is the only sub forum that has stuff to do with one of my main interests. I feel it should be renamed, debate and bash though. I don't go there to debate, so i don't spend time preparing topics, researching and compiling documents to back up statements. Debating goal is to get the other side to think as you do. I don't want to make others do that. I read articles and links for fun/interest. I read a lot on varying topics then close them and move on to the next one.

I don't like being put on the spot to show backing links, I never wanted to push people just to say my opinion, the last topic was in adult sub, I already feel bad for masturbating and liking sex, my upbringing say's its bad, society says its bad. but friends linked me to medical studies that showed it can be healthy for stress, happiness, preventing cancer and infections. I can't find anything on google though like i mean anything no matter what i search for be it on any topic I fail at wording it right to bring up related results and i don't keep the addresses as I read them and others I began to at least have a alternate push in my mind that it was ok, I can stop masturbating but i get super super horny all the time, which causes problems for me in interacting with the other sex. I can ruin possible relationships cause I'll mention sex too soon. if done regally my hormones are kept in check. there's also the built up seman that leads to pain and having a erection more often which is uncomfortable and embarrassing

maybe i should get a surgry to remove my hormones, but then i couldn't ever have sex or have kids. But yet being attracted to women and getting horny is rather a bad thing. but if there's no sex drive or attraction to a woman then its bad. there doesn't seem to be in middle ground.

wish there was a emotion restricting and hormone drugs, then if i won the lottery I could just go live on a mountain alone.

there isn't. and i get hit from both sides some here making me feel like a sexist then other women who say that women want nsa sex. being told I am bad for finding a woman's body sexual, yet as i said if I got a gf and i didn't find it sexual then she would feel awful and likely break it up, plus I can't change i find it sexual. at least not without the emotion drug but then is attraction a emotion suppose having no hormones would fix it maybe. but that can't be switched on and off. though if i had no emotions then i wouldn't love or care for anyone so i wouldn't want a gf. though that would likely lead to not caring about life.

i sometimes envy the aspies who have no desire for social stuff and are happy just doing their interests.

everything seems to say I shouldn't go near people, yet everything about me needs and craves it

that was alot sorry

That's all right. You had a lot to say.

You're right.....in the Philosophy section, it seems de riguer to have documentation, etc. However, it shouldn't be that way. My solution would be to state what you say with the caveat that it is a "personal opinion." If you FEEL like crediting sources, do so. If you don't--it's your personal opinion, so you don't need corroboration by someone or something else. Yes, there are people who like to snipe. It's a pity. Like I said, there should be a professor there correcting papers, and an online school handing out degrees LOL.

Yes, the Philosophy et al section has many people who are quite anti-religious. They are seeking "empirical proof" for something which is, essentially, faith-based, and not based upon tangible "proof."

I'm an agnostic myself--but I believe religion has its place in society.

You should really explore the other sections, such as the music, the writing, and the random sections. Documentation is certainly not needed there!

If you're a writer, you could post your stuff in the writing section. If you're a musician, ditto

If they tell you to STFU, smite them with force!

Do a Joyce upon their butts!! !!

I'd be delighted LOL :wink

You're right, sometimes it's better to turn the other cheek.

I don't like people telling me to STFU, though. I seethe when there's so much arrogance.

I don't disagree with what you said at all. There is much intelligence. It could just be presented better.

I hope Sly could see the forest for the trees, and come back and enjoy his time on the Forum.

Remember that this too can pass.