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shadexiii
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25 Feb 2007, 7:07 pm

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Well at some point you have to stop complaining and blaming others for your problems and start taking responsibility.


Right, you can continue to be the victim, or you can start being proactive about your situation.



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25 Feb 2007, 7:10 pm

Unknown, what is your avatar? It's not an f-15 nor f-16. is it the new f-22? What made you choose that one....guess I'm getting off track.

It's hard to take responsiblity for your actions; when you don't feel you know the options and how to make it work. Becuase, then everyone else is makign the choices. It's how to get that knowledge, that makes us accept our own actions.

I guess, I just don't like that blanket statment, mr. mark. I have always blamed someone else for everything; i'm never wrong. However, it wasn't until I could take action that I understood the responsiblity part.

Unknown, do you know what options you have to take care of yourself and to help your parents? You have quite a few course of action here. Once you know those, everything gets easier.



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25 Feb 2007, 7:18 pm

Cordelia wrote:
Unknown, what is your avatar? It's not an f-15 nor f-16. is it the new f-22? What made you choose that one....guess I'm getting off track.

It's hard to take responsiblity for your actions; when you don't feel you know the options and how to make it work. Becuase, then everyone else is makign the choices. It's how to get that knowledge, that makes us accept our own actions.

I guess, I just don't like that blanket statment, mr. mark. I have always blamed someone else for everything; i'm never wrong. However, it wasn't until I could take action that I understood the responsiblity part.

Unknown, do you know what options you have to take care of yourself and to help your parents? You have quite a few course of action here. Once you know those, everything gets easier.


1.Its a AV-8 Harrier 2.

2.I don't have "course of action",everything is just too hard...


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25 Feb 2007, 7:23 pm

Cordelia wrote:
Unknown, what is your avatar? It's not an f-15 nor f-16. is it the new f-22? What made you choose that one....guess I'm getting off track.


That's an AV-8B Harrier.



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25 Feb 2007, 7:27 pm

Unknown wrote:
2.I don't have "course of action"

Then start working on ideas?
Unknown wrote:
,everything is just too hard...

Well, it won't get easier if you just wait. You should know from your own experiences (at least those you've spoken of) that a lot of the time, there won't be someone there to make things better. That leaves one person, you.



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25 Feb 2007, 7:30 pm

mmmmm....ill look into the AV8; must be navy. i haven't studied much on navy planes.

as to "course of actions" .... i think everyone in forum could offer suggestions from their personal experiences of what worked/didn't work.

If I were you, I would write down three things you could do...then right down the effects of choosing those choices...and look for feedback from other aspies, if those scenarios ever helped them.

sky's limit....you choose. I'm outta here for now; it's late....take care....



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25 Feb 2007, 7:56 pm

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I hope she doesn't get pissed,if so i'm sorry redmage.

I'm not pissed off. I know my family is poor, and it sucks!



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25 Feb 2007, 8:23 pm

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Unknown wrote:
I hope she doesn't get pissed,if so i'm sorry redmage.

I'm not pissed off. I know my family is poor, and it sucks!

Okay.


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25 Feb 2007, 8:25 pm

You have a step-dad too? I do...



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25 Feb 2007, 8:31 pm

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You have a step-dad too? I do...

Yeah i do,he hates me.


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