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27 Apr 2016, 9:20 pm

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I can't stand being around women who think their better then me.

Maybe they just don't like you.

Can't dislike someone without having known or even talked to them.



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27 Apr 2016, 9:41 pm

I feel like you're a bit paranoid about them taking your guns away, can you still pass the NICBC? They're not taking away every depressed person's guns away, that just isn't happening. I could buy a gun right now I am pretty sure, they haven't come for me...

yet 8O :P

I think anxiety medicine could really help you sly, I've always found your situation relatable and I think my paranoia has definitely declined in my personal life since I started taking them. Now it's just temporary relief, I can feel those old fears creep back as the medication wanes but like I said I feel like I've done things I probably wouldn't of done otherwise because of it. Benzos work, their side effect is mainly that they're addictive but **** it I'd rather be addicted and semi-functional than a clean shut in. I wouldn't take an SSRI or anti-psychotic, I don't take things where the potential side effects are worse than what it is treating. I don't want to take any drugs that make me gain a bunch of weight and grow breasts, trust me I've done my research. A drug is a drug regardless if it comes from a doctor or not, I weigh the actual effects versus what they say is the best course of action. I wouldn't continue taking something if I thought it hurt me. Wallowing in an intolerable situation isn't healthy, I am not happy where I am at in life but I'm desperate not to be stagnant so I put myself thru this suffering because what other option do I have but to give up and die?



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27 Apr 2016, 9:52 pm

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I feel like you're a bit paranoid about them taking your guns away, can you still pass the NICBC? They're not taking away every depressed person's guns away, that just isn't happening. I could buy a gun right now I am pretty sure, they haven't come for me...

yet 8O :P

I think anxiety medicine could really help you sly, I've always found your situation relatable and I think my paranoia has definitely declined in my personal life since I started taking them. Now it's just temporary relief, I can feel those old fears creep back as the medication wanes but like I said I feel like I've done things I probably wouldn't of done otherwise because of it. Benzos work, their side effect is mainly that they're addictive but **** it I'd rather be addicted and semi-functional than a clean shut in. I wouldn't take an SSRI or anti-psychotic, I don't take things where the potential side effects are worse than what it is treating. I don't want to take any drugs that make me gain a bunch of weight and grow breasts, trust me I've done my research. A drug is a drug regardless if it comes from a doctor or not, I weigh the actual effects versus what they say is the best course of action. I wouldn't continue taking something if I thought it hurt me. Wallowing in an intolerable situation isn't healthy, I am not happy where I am at in life but I'm desperate not to be stagnant so I put myself thru this suffering because what other option do I have but to give up and die?


Just because you pass nics today doesn't mean you will tomorrow it's not a non alterable list

What if besides not having a gf one is happy with how their life is?
I'm content working the same job, living in the same city for the rest of my life. I guess I'm simple. I mean this job isn't the best but if the people were gone and heat turned down I could do. I think I'd be better in a factory assembling or packing something in a assembly line. Born in the wrong time period.

The job I'm at had a high turn over rate, people transfer out a lot or quit. Other employees are like I don't know how you do it. I guess I'm just more accepting and patient then most people.



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27 Apr 2016, 9:55 pm

Before I tried dating sit s seriously I use to think I'd be wonderful for a woman. Old women friend use to say I'd make some lady a great boyfriend.

Now I'm afraid to even say anything good about me



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27 Apr 2016, 11:16 pm

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I can't stand being around women who think their better then me.

Maybe they just don't like you.

Can't dislike someone without having known or even talked to them.

Why not? I dislike you already.



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28 Apr 2016, 12:04 am

AspE wrote:
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I can't stand being around women who think their better then me.

Maybe they just don't like you.

Can't dislike someone without having known or even talked to them.

Why not? I dislike you already.

Bummer. But you've interacted with me and seen me post on here for long while in which to base a like or dislike.



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28 Apr 2016, 7:12 am

Personally seeing a counseled and anxiety meds helped me tremendously. I dint really understand the whole why guns are so important thing and why you would be in danger without them :/ ( from england here so no guns)



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28 Apr 2016, 7:34 am

AspE is just trying to pull your chains, Sly. He's trying to provoke you.

He doesn't know you from Adam.



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28 Apr 2016, 9:11 am

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Why do you think that they think like that of you?

Becaus lots of women do, and they won't even acknowledge me when I say morning or hi.


I knew such people at work, I've stopped telling them Good morning or hi after few attempts (and I was really hearable).

And then suddenly after few days of deliberately ignoring them, they start saying hi and good morning to me.

It's funny how strong reverse psychology is, it works every time for me in such cases.

Be like me!


Work requires it. It's grounds for referral as we all had to sign a thing saying we understood what is expected of us.
They didn't like that we aren't being nice to each other at work I guess. I've only been here 8 months though. I've tried keeping to myself


So in that case they are in breach of contract and should be referred for it simple.


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28 Apr 2016, 9:32 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
AspE is just trying to pull your chains, Sly. He's trying to provoke you.

He doesn't know you from Adam.

true



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28 Apr 2016, 9:32 am

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Personally seeing a counseled and anxiety meds helped me tremendously. I dint really understand the whole why guns are so important thing and why you would be in danger without them :/ ( from england here so no guns)


I have to agree I see no point in the guns either.

Maybe it is been from England, as just not lived with them so don't need them. And gun related crime is very low here. The UK has one of the lowest gun crime rates in the world US is quite high. So maybe my attitude would be different if I lived there.

Think this topic is derailing atm...


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28 Apr 2016, 9:41 am

I really just don't think they'd come for you guns, do you need licenses and registration in Oregon? How would they even know? I think the anxiety medicine could help with paranoia and being so in your own head about what other people think to the point that it is completely overwhelming to be in that place.



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28 Apr 2016, 11:53 am

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I really just don't think they'd come for you guns, do you need licenses and registration in Oregon? How would they even know? I think the anxiety medicine could help with paranoia and being so in your own head about what other people think to the point that it is completely overwhelming to be in that place.

The background check. They ask what gun ,miss erial number, who buying it. They suppose to delet them but claim it's too expensive to delete.



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28 Apr 2016, 11:55 am

ZD wrote:
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Personally seeing a counseled and anxiety meds helped me tremendously. I dint really understand the whole why guns are so important thing and why you would be in danger without them :/ ( from england here so no guns)


I have to agree I see no point in the guns either.

Maybe it is been from England, as just not lived with them so don't need them. And gun related crime is very low here. The UK has one of the lowest gun crime rates in the world US is quite high. So maybe my attitude would be different if I lived there.

Think this topic is derailing atm...


Your freedom was surrendered before your were born so I don't expect many English to understand. Still from what I understand there's a minority who does and wants their freedom back not that'll it'll ever happen. Once you give something to any government they never give it back.

Europe in general is more of a servant populace then citizen population. European seem to prefer king like authoritian politicians. Americans and Canada somewhat were more independent it's up to you to survive due to being so far from England and in a hostile environment. Had to move away from the idea that a king or ruler would do everything for you and protect you.

Russians really prefer dictatorships more so though. It's a cultural and environmental thing. Perhaps if the king had been able to better keep control and presence in American we'd be different today. Though liberals are tying to bring us more towards servant.

Mean for peaks sake you all aren't even allowed to defend yourself if attacked, if you do you get charged. Freak that. Someone attacks me I fighting back.



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28 Apr 2016, 1:30 pm

They won't take away your guns unless you do something crazy.

There's too many people with guns, too few people to take them away.



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28 Apr 2016, 1:32 pm

I don't agree with Sly on the fact that Europeans are "servants" to their government.

Most European countries have reasonable freedoms, in my opinion.



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