Noca wrote:
Your situation is really tough and I am sorry. Hindsight is 20/20, you couldn't have known it was a brain aneurysm.
It's true. I shouldn't beat myself up over it like I knew what was happening.
The funeral was hard. It wasn't cheerful like the funerals I went to for my great parents. They were like celebrations of their long lives. Some of them were in their 90s. I feel if you die at that age, it's not a tragedy, it's an achievement.
But he was only 56. It's different when someone dies before their time. It was harder on his other kids because they're younger.
goldfish21 wrote:
As for your arguments with him, have you ever considered that if you didn't engage him in this discussions that you may not have spoken much at all? Or that perhaps he enjoyed getting fired up and arguing with you?
True true. He really loved it. I was surprised by the number of messages on his Facebook profile left by people who said they'd miss debating him.
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The days are long, but the years are short
10 Nov 2018, 7:36 am
