The most unfair thing you've had to deal with

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08 Dec 2018, 8:37 pm

I kind of feel like if I never got diagnosed I could have done more with my life.



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08 Dec 2018, 10:09 pm

When someone had the nerve to tell me that it was "lying" for me to ask him to call me "jlhe" instead of "she"

When idiots ask me "are you a boy or girl". When I am 35. None of your business, b***h!

When someone made me redundant and said "it's not a good fit" . She didn't even have to accuse me of doing anything wrong

When my precious lil "parents" made fun of me when I came out as trans (San Diego 2003). It took about a year for them to come around, :jester: but after that, they never made it up to me. Instead, they acted like they have never done anything wrong before


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The former aikido instructor let an 11 year old spoiled upper middle class brat take lessons. The lil dips**t's dad just sat there while it did whatever it wanted


Ass holes do things wrong and innocently ask "are not ok?". Like they want credit for "helping" me. For example, a different aikido "instructor" was so selfish that she let her off leash Rover in the dojo

And I was screaming and almost hyperventilated

"Are you ok ?" She asked. Like she had never done anything wrong before in her life.

:mrgreen:


Electrocute the owner that takes her dog off leash

Stupid b***h never got a punishment :)



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10 Dec 2018, 9:38 am

I don't think I want to think about all those right now. But there are several events that caused me years and years of suffering, to this day, with no ending in sight. It's actually rather hard for me to think of things that have been fair right now. Life is not fair, what can I do other than accepting it and keeping my head up?


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10 Dec 2018, 8:29 pm

I'll make mine as short as possible;
The most unfair thing I have to deal with is myself as a human.

Beyond that? It's the world I live in, and I'm not alone dealing with it.


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10 Dec 2018, 10:23 pm

Getting blamed by precious lil "parents" , teacher and classmates , for bullying

Blame the victim

"Parents" blaming :mrgreen: me :roll: :idea: for autism symptoms and clinical depression.

And for being socially awkward, but they did not send me to extracurricular activities

Arrogant and entitled driver's, while I was trying to ride a bike



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10 Dec 2018, 10:50 pm

Well, I am pregnant and I'm staying with my parents basically because I have to and my friend is being judgemental of me even though she's supposedly a Christian. Something's wrong with my brain right now mentally because I've been dealing with a bunch of crap recently. The one thing I think is unfair is being in a house I really wish I didn't have to be in. Plus, my dad smokes a pipe in his room. My mom has blocked under his door and a vent and told him to keep a fan in his window to blow out the smoke. If I smell it at night, I really don't like it and can't handle the stress my brain does because of it. A trigger.

I put a fan in front of the living room window at these times at night to blow out the smell. But, recently mom has been wanting me to turn it off more.
Now I have to deal with that.
I hate this place.

My room is the only place I feel somewhat comfortable in most of the time, but I'm suffocating.
Time to leave, my brain says, but I have to wait till probably about 2 weeks.
I feel I may die or go insane from the stress I get from my dad's smoke.
I've been hating his habit. I may hate him.

I hate my life.

At this moment.

I wish I can be happy, free.

I wish my dad would stop.

I'm tired. I want joy.



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10 Dec 2018, 11:39 pm

Getting fired, without providing a reason

Homophobia

Idiots asking "are you ok?". Like they were doing me a personal favor

Forced to take the SAT in 7th grade

"Failure to attend to special education need"