26 Aug 2020, 4:48 pm
Carpeta wrote:
What on earth!! !
Please, please, please get these terrible people out of your life. You know that it's wrong. You owe nothing to "family" that treats you like this. Block them. Get rid of them. The restraining order might be a good idea, if it's legally possible. You are worth more than this. That beautiful, confident you in your profile pic you were so happy about? Do it for her. Cut off all contact. That's really what needs to happen here. I see no way to keep your uncle in your life at all; he will just manipulate with every chance he gets. He's learned how to get what he wants out of you. He's using you. You are kind-hearted and want to do well by others, but this is hurting yourself and doing your uncle no good by enabling him. You deserve friends who will appreciate your kindness, not prey upon it.
You can do this!
Please, please, please get these terrible people out of your life. You know that it's wrong. You owe nothing to "family" that treats you like this. Block them. Get rid of them. The restraining order might be a good idea, if it's legally possible. You are worth more than this. That beautiful, confident you in your profile pic you were so happy about? Do it for her. Cut off all contact. That's really what needs to happen here. I see no way to keep your uncle in your life at all; he will just manipulate with every chance he gets. He's learned how to get what he wants out of you. He's using you. You are kind-hearted and want to do well by others, but this is hurting yourself and doing your uncle no good by enabling him. You deserve friends who will appreciate your kindness, not prey upon it.
You can do this!
Thanks! The other major thing that really bothered me was when I lived with him, any mail that came in my name or my husband's name, he would open it, and read through it before giving it to us... When I told him to stop it, he screamed at me...
And I have some relatives that hate my uncle, but they never come to my defense... My in-laws really hate him after my late husband told them how he treats me, I'm hoping to get some support if I get that position from them because they live in Jersey...
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26 Aug 2020, 5:34 pm
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