GoatMan wrote:
All these posts I see in the Haven are wastes of time. Venting, which I admit to doing, I can understand. However, seriously asking for support or understanding as something less than what is expected of an NT is useless. It defeats the entire purpose of this site.
Some of the people here are challenged much more by things that NTs have no struggle with. I say let them vent. Is it always fruitful? No. Maybe it feels good at the moment.
GoatMan wrote:
Being together like this is to better determine how we can compensate for what we cannot do as NTs, or finding ways to train ourselves to be NT-like without losing our beliefs and moral character (aka, learning to interact with other reasonable people, and not turning into vandalizing, delinquent hoodlums). This is NOT supposed to be a site for playing the ever-so-popularized NT "pity me more" game.
If human beings followed every "supposed to", we'd all be robots. This forum exists to allow people to deal with frustration in more constructive ways than they might otherwise - or to offer the comfort-in-friends that many aspies lack in real life. I don't think most of them want pity.
GoatMan wrote:
Doing anything less than striving to be the best we can be, such as b****ing about how no one understands us just goes to show how worthless your value as a living creature truly is. I may hate and want to destroy everything NT, but I work every minute of every day to better interact with the people around me, because rather than just avoiding being backstabbed, being something less than what I see others doing is hateful, and disgusting.
Do you realize you contradict yourself?
GoatMan wrote:
If I cannot be and do what others can, I might as well throw away my life at this moment, because I will NOT tolerate being weak, useless garbage. So, I don't see why the rest of you seem so content with it.
You hate NTs, yet you feel you ought to throw your life away if you aren't one. Fascinating.
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