Can they have a trial behind your back

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Your memories do not change the fact that the court does not hold trials without notifying the person concerned and without their participation and has no power to impose ball shrivelling on you, nor do courts write to people telling them they must get rid of their pornograpgy for a set period of time.

Maybe your mother told you to get rid of the porn and you assumed this was the content of the letter, maybe your mother told you nothing about porn and your memory is unreliable. You claim your mother now will not admit this incident and maybe that is because she does not remember it or she does not remember it being as you describe. Obviously the letter cannot have been to tell you to get rid of your porn for X amount of time so it must be the case that your memory or mother misled you some respect. Based on what you have to say about your mother, it's not unlikely that your memory is the culprit.

The point remains, the courts cannot have a trial behind your back, no one conducts surveilance of the kind you describe or in the circumstances you describe, and US courts do not order people to have their balls chemically shrivelled, much less that it be done without the explicit knowledge of the effected person.

HMD, what you are being told is true. Either your mom is deceiving you, you are expeiencing paranoid delusions, or there is such a major miscommunication that all reality is lost. If your mom is the only one who has said anything to you, my suspicion is that it is a means of control, and is not real. How long has this been going on?


M.

I do not think that you are a scatterbrain HelloMed, but what you describe is just not possible.

The courts simply cannot operate the way that you believe that they have. They cannot have a trial without your participation in such circumstances. They cannot order medical proceedures to shrivel your testicles without your knowledge and consent. They cannot make arrangements for your mother to pass on information to you in the manner you describe. They cannot rent the apartment next door to you to surveil you during a trial or after a trial in the manner you describe (nor would investigative surveilance proceed in the manner you describe). They cannot pass information to your work mates, or to people passing by your window. The courts do not have the authority, and law enforcement do no have the resources to conduct themselves as you describe.

The point that you need to keep in mind is that it is impossible for the courts to conduct themselves as you describe. They simply cannot do these things.

Seconded - not dismissing what you feel, but what you are describing does not make sense and is not permitted for those agencies. I am not attacking your mother either, but am asking if there is the chance of miscommunication or her acting in what she believes are your best interests. You did not answer how long this situation has been going on. Given Occam's Razor, your conclusion does not match the possibilities.


M.

Hey Darrell, I'm just checking in on you. No one here is trying to make you feel stupid. They just want to show you the logical side of your situation so that you can begin to take control of these panic attacks by telling yourself how these things cannot be true. We can say this stuff over and over but you also have to tell yourself what really makes sense in order to get your anxiety under control.

The things you say about the letter, your porn stash, the probation, and the people talking about you and monitoring you, the chemical castration, all are in the category of "not logical". If you can filter out what is not logical you can calm yourslef down when these episodes happen and you start to feel anxious and panicky.

The police are not allowed to room mate with the people next door to spy on someone. The law does not allow the police to spy on people willy nilly. There has to be a specific crime that is being investigated and further there has to be very good cause to believe that the surveilance will uncover evidence of that crime. Additionally the crime must be significant enough to justify both the use of resources and the invasion of the privacy of someone who is technically innocent. Unless it is a serious violent crime or involves significant monetary value, the police do not use surveilance to try to get evidence about someone on the basis of acts that took place as long ago as you describe.

I'm late to this thread, but just read the whole thing and hoped i might be able to offer a little bit of help.

There is a such thing as a warm line. you can call them and talk for as long as you need about whatever is on your mind. it is like a hot line only it is to listen to people with mental health issues. the phones are answered by other people with mental health issues too so they understand you.

to find one please see this site. Note: I am not sure the one listed in Oregon actually works, as I've tried it before. But some are nationwide.

http://buzz.freeshell.org/wlines/

Here is the Legal Aid website with phone numbers for Oregon
http://www.osbar.org/public/ris/LowCost ... alAid.html

Also if you feel like you are in crisis, and you need to talk to someone locally, you can call this crisis
line for St Helens, Oregon:

"Our Crisis Services are available to those in need. A crisis is generally defined as any mental and/or emotional state and/or behavior that endangers life or safety. If you are in need of a non-crisis appointment, please contact us at 503.397.5211.

For crisis intervention services please contact us at: 800.294.5211 or 1 (866) 866-1426 (after hours) and speak with a mental health therapist. If in crisis you can come to our main office at Creekside Center, 58646 McNulty Way, St. Helens, Oregon during business hours- Monday through Friday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Please dial 911 or local law enforcement if there is an emergency requiring law enforcement or immediate danger."

x`Maybe this would help you, too, if you could live with some people who were trained to help you, and could talk to you whenever you needed it 24/7:

http://www.columbiacommunitymentalhealt ... /main.html

I hope some of this helps. I hope the people at the crisis hotline can help answer some of your questions. They're local, so they'd know some of thre local laws, right? If you call them and tell them what's happening to you, and what medications you're on, they may know what to do.

Best of luck
Kate

all I know is that somthing is going on and my naibors seem to know things and say things that upset me. it has been this way with multiple naibors and the only thing that makes sense is the fact the police are the common connection. I worry that somthing is goiing to happen