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17 Jun 2013, 9:29 pm

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WitchsCat wrote:

Also, hardly anyone ever comments on my art I post, meaning they don't care about it, or they think it's bad and didn't tell me. Am I that bad of an artist?

most people that post in the "display your art" thread are showcasing their own efforts, and their main desire is to be appraised as gifted, but they will sometimes "lower" themselves to say "wow great stuff" about other posts to look humble when in reality they are just reminding everyone else that they exist and they act as if they are humble enough to care outside the domain of their own productions, when in reality they are just hoping that other readers will search their post history to see their own artistic contributions.

the world is a murky place of insincerity and false flattery in order to pull the "camera" toward their own existence.

i posted much stuff in the art thread which i thought would elicit a response, but almost everything i posted was ignored. i do allow that i think of mathematical functions that create my pictures that i write programs to execute and render, and i have been told that i was cheating because i did not draw my pictures with my hand.

i felt that i was being short changed because i devised the functions that created the pictures in my own head. no one could manually draw the pictures i posted, but that was ignored.

i gave up posting my stuff to that thread.

i have not visited that thread for about a year or more, so i have not seen your contributions to it.

@b9 & WitchsCat.
try conceptart or deviantart if have not done so already,though iritatingly it does require posting on their forum for the purpose of getting seen,and theres godawful cliques?clicks? where people suckup to,its like a school playground and am no longer active on there because mine only got comment from spam bots.
theres some amazing works on there that dont get seen but they give the art awards out to the users who have got the most friends supporting them,its not right.

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18 Jun 2013, 4:53 am

WitchsCat wrote:

I've been here for a couple months, and I thought I'd fit in. Apparently, I'm not as welcome here as I thought. Whenever I have an opinion on something, I am often either criticized or corrected. When it's the latter, I didn't know most of the time; I mean, I'm just as human as the rest of the WPers here. Also, hardly anyone ever comments on my art I post, meaning they don't care about it, or they think it's bad and didn't tell me. Am I that bad of an artist?

I don't even know if I can deal with this anymore... :cry:

At least you don't get insulted out of the blue like me by a couple of members.

Recently I got insulted in a thread before opening my mouth (before posting there)

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Me: *checking thread for first time*
Member 1: The_Face_of_Boo is a bastard!!
Member 2: Burn the freak Boo!
Member 3: Throw that bastard Boo under the bus and toss his body in the sewers!
Me: O.o ?!

Yeah, too much caring T_T

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18 Jun 2013, 8:26 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

WitchsCat wrote:

At least you don't get insulted out of the blue like me by a couple of members.

Recently I got insulted in a thread before opening my mouth (before posting there)

That sucks. I truly believe you weigh more than a duck.

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18 Jun 2013, 8:50 am

Repeated post.

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18 Jun 2013, 8:52 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

At least you don't get insulted out of the blue like me by a couple of members.

Recently I got insulted in a thread before opening my mouth (before posting there)

Here Boo, have a falafel....Friends?

I thought my post on here before was at least worth replying to. I'm so vain.

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18 Jun 2013, 9:43 am

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I'm so vain.

you're so vain, you probably think this post is about you.

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18 Jun 2013, 10:00 am

smudge wrote:

As for loving yourself when you're on your own - yes, it is a great way to be. However...aren't we missing out in some way by not socialising? Like love?

i do not know. i do not really know what love is. i feel very happy to be the only member of my audience because i put on a good show as far as i am concerned. i like what i think more than anything i ever hear from the outside world. i am glad i am privileged to sit in the only seat in my theater.

smudge wrote:

...The actual saying

not the theoretical saying? ,

smudge wrote:

"How can you love someone else when you can't love yourself?" is one of the most false statements I have ever heard.

i agree. i do not love anyone else (except for one). i wish i was my identical twin and be able to rape myself with impunity.

smudge wrote:

Just to add to the "vain" topic - I think some of the "me, me" stuff is due to the fact that we try to analyse ourselves in order to analyse and understand other people. It's a lot easier to figure things out, and I think part of our thinking comes out in what we say.

i have no concept of "our" or "we". it is all just simply "I" and "Me".

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19 Jun 2013, 1:07 am

I have lots of posts, but I don't get lots of replies, but I don't mind, and I don't want to get lots of replies, which are too many to reply to myself, and often I don't reply to replies to me, because I don't want to have back and forth conversations, and I mostly post if I know something about a topic or if I have opinion on issue, and I don't think of WP as a place where I should fit in or have people interested in or caring about me.

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24 Jun 2013, 2:06 pm

b9 spoke my mind what concerns this thread and even summed me up in a nutshell.

Seems like we're all being guilty of being the way we don't like other people to be.

Guess it's human nature, not aspieness, neither NT-ness.

The best thing you can do is to just merge in and deal with the fact that you can't change a person who is doing everything he/she could do to change other people (including you) to fit their and their needs only, yet it doesn't hurt to try I guess.

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24 Jun 2013, 4:11 pm

I don't mean to offend the OP but i think this is an attention grabbing post. I understand how sometimes you feel like people don't care or understand. but i have a feeling there are more people who feel alone on this site than feel like part of the community. This said i grew up in a home constantly getting verbal abuse from my dad, looking back had he known I was aspie i think he would have not done it. he just thought i was lazy and rebellious. so i feel this is the kinda thing i would have done then make a post to receive positive motivation. While i understand you need it, i also feel like making a post like this will make some people dislike you more.

I understand where it is coming from but perhaps you could try to get some other people on the site to do things online with you like play a game or email them. Develop personal relationships or create a thread about trying to make connections with people. Instead of saying you feel left out. Say you want to be more included.

I should also say for everyone else... We are literally a community of people who don't understand when someone feels left out. we have difficulty showing we care. we like to argue. we say the wrong things at the wrong time. we like you feel ignored or left out alot. and we often don't initiate making friends or telling someone we appreciate them.

But i am sorry you feel this way. if you would like to send me a PM i would lvoe to talk to you more and stuff
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