why do women have to be so mean and condecending

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That is exactly what I believed about all men for maybe 35 years. It's a good description of home. Mom used to warn me against love at first sight. My brothers saw women as waitresses etc. If attracted to a guy, I would run for the hills and if he followed, I'd be mean. Anything to save myself from this white-slaver (any man).

I've had years of therapy; it's safe to approach now. I'm only 64.

I truly never believed any man had feelings or could be in good faith. You make me think I should do Step X - Make Retribution - yikes, that a lot of trying remember. But coming out here might be a start.

Advice: If you speak and she doesn't answer, give up immediately.

You're normal man who dare to disclose his wimpy sissy self which is not bad thing at all.

no i relate them saying I'm sub standard and worthless to wanting me to die. they see me as a burden surely me dieing would then free them of that burden

condescending is just mean. its treating people like children. I've noticed women do it a lot when they disagree with you but dont' just say so. they pretend to agree with you in a condecending tone. so you know they don't actually agrree with you. its a mind game meant to confuse and belittle us.

maybe but non of them matter without the high income. many women say I'd make a good bf until they find out I make min wage. so they like that I'm romantic, kind, caring, sweet, cute, funny, and sexual stuff, but all that goes into the trash over income. baffers me how women will have a guy that meets 99% of their wants and refuse him over a single issue, they want perfection.

though some will accept a guy who lacks all the stuff I do as long as he has high income.

to me this is insane. money isnt' important. all the other stuff. you know personality and intersts is the important things. or you might as well just be a whore and exchange sex for money. if you are witha guy who doens't meat the other stuff you want but has money then that's what they'll doing. sure its not outright because you're pretending to have a relationship. but if you exchanging your sex for his income what else is it?
not saying all women do this, but some women even say they give the guy "comfort" for his income. can they really not see it for what it is?

got in a arguement wtih lady over it. shes like the majority of women so I thoght since shes talking to me I could ask her about that stuff and find out whats the min money the majority of women like here would accept but she wont' anwser.

i don't get it. they say they not asshamed of it and they right ot demand it so why act ashamed by not answering.

if you ask me about stuff I do and I'm not asshamed of it I'll tell you. most people will talk about stuff they aren't ashamed of but won't if they are. so is part of her ashamed shes superficial?

Retribution ?

WOW! I meant restitution, of course.
What other darkness still lurks in the depths of my soul?

its just frustrating. this post was a vent because this woman was being condescending to me.

I'm afraid that I might make sly get offended due to my limited vocabulary regardless my good intension.

hugs . no you didn't offend me.