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02 Sep 2015, 3:49 pm
PeterHoping44 wrote:
Mate, I was remanded in jail three ******* times and branded as a sex offender, all because of wanting to make amends with Sara and Joanna, and for acting like a total twit when it did not go my way! NOBODY forgets that (being locked up). It came after, what? Dozens of people on the Internet and offline making a downright arse of me for well OVER a decade, which was not a fun experience. It was painfully prolonged and very lonesome as well. Hell, all I actually wanted was to fit in. No wonder I kind of acted viciously in return. 
There was a time when I met so many (at least back then) great people, either online or in person, that I would gladly have at some point put in my top ten 'best of' lists. Yet I am clearly delusional if I still think they care about me just now. I'm probably so attached to them all in an unhealthy manner because they were nice once, so I cherish that. If only THAT one time they were cool, it doesn't matter. It touched my heart. But how is it that people can act so "decent" on the initial meeting but then later ending up turning 'my world' (such as it is) upside down? Something tells me that once I started the 'poor pitiful me' horse shite, they all smelled, 'Peter is an exploitable wimp...' and like sharks to blood in the water, quickly and promptly tore me to pieces. However, being a loner and a nice guy, I still have "HIGH REGARDS" for them after all that occurred. That makes me a moron.
Mary. Laura. Patrick. Sara. Joanna. Linzi.
Sad and misguided. Huh? I keep seeing a pattern.
There was a time when I met so many (at least back then) great people, either online or in person, that I would gladly have at some point put in my top ten 'best of' lists. Yet I am clearly delusional if I still think they care about me just now. I'm probably so attached to them all in an unhealthy manner because they were nice once, so I cherish that. If only THAT one time they were cool, it doesn't matter. It touched my heart. But how is it that people can act so "decent" on the initial meeting but then later ending up turning 'my world' (such as it is) upside down? Something tells me that once I started the 'poor pitiful me' horse shite, they all smelled, 'Peter is an exploitable wimp...' and like sharks to blood in the water, quickly and promptly tore me to pieces. However, being a loner and a nice guy, I still have "HIGH REGARDS" for them after all that occurred. That makes me a moron.
Mary. Laura. Patrick. Sara. Joanna. Linzi.
Sad and misguided. Huh? I keep seeing a pattern.
My nephew is a sex offender because he had sex with his long time gf who was a year younger than him after he turned 18 and she was still 17 or almost 17. THey had sex quite a few times, before and after he was 18. When he broke up with her she told her dad to get him in trouble then it all blew the f**k up. This is truly a case of somebody doing NOTHING WRONG that is labeled that for life.
He's not calling her or wanting to make it up to her, although she is to him but tough s**t he wants nothing to do with her now.
You cannot fix this. Leave it alone or you will go back to jail. THEY DONT WANT TO HEAR s**t FROM YOU!
I honestly think we are all just feeding into him by replying to his wanting to talk about it. I'm going to stop replying because I've been through this with him many times on here and he won't get it. I really suggest everyone else stop replying to this because all it's doing is encouraging him.
He wants to talk about it, let him talk to a shrink, that's who will be able to help him, not us.
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03 Sep 2015, 8:10 am
PeterHoping44 wrote:
Do you have to be 18 in New Zealand to have sex? I wasn't aware of that. In the UK, it is 16+ and they put tobacco sales to 18. You are a Kiwi, OOM?
I live in the US. I'm in the Deep South. In the state they were living in, if a guy over 18 has sex with a girl under 18, if she is not his wife, then she or her parents can press charges. He was charged with statuatory rape and endangering a minor. Even though they had been doing it for over a year. He dumped her and she got mad. Now his whole life is ruined. Always a sex offended.
Then again, he's not going to do anything with his life anyway. He's a slacker. Spoiled rotten. He's 23 or so and he sits in his room playing video games and talking on the phone all day. He has no social problems, he's just too stuck up to have anything to do with anybody in Alabama because he's not from the South and thinks he's too good for us all. He also can't drive, can't cook, can't wash his own clothes or anything. Not because anything is wrong with him, his dad never made him do anything. Waits on him hand and foot. Spoiled rotten. His mother died when he was young and my BIL went overboard with trying to coddle him. Ruined that kid. Nobody much likes him. He didn't finish high school and didn't get a GED or anything. No plans for the future. Just eventually when his grandmother dies and he gets his inheritance they will go back home and he will use that money and get a place of his own, a car, learn to drive, and party. Everybody is waiting on the inheritance except my husband and his sister. And my kids.
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03 Sep 2015, 8:11 am
PeterHoping44 wrote:
She eats olives.
I do, but my maiden name is the same as a major brand of olive oil. Or it was before they changed the spelling several years back.
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03 Sep 2015, 10:30 am
03 Sep 2015, 3:26 pm
PeterHoping44 wrote:
My advocate is going to put in a complaint regarding the way I was treated. It won't get them back, but anyway, that's what he will do. I'm in court on 15 September. I hope it's all over by then.
You were treated like an obsessive stalker, because that is how you behaved. Here's a thought: If you don't like being treated that way, then stop behaving like an obsessive stalker and obsessively stalking people, and maybe then people will react more positively to you. Can you give that a try?
03 Sep 2015, 7:05 pm
04 Sep 2015, 1:05 am
...I hope you're not suggesting harassing your two former cellmates (One of whom was accused , like you ~ Of what , though ?~ and the other convicted of child abuse attempting to set up sexual abuse , if I read the story you linked to correctly) . if they are guilty they are guilty but I do not think further is called for , especially considering that you don't describe what (beyond their crimes ) they did , to you or others , that would call for this , and I don't see what anyone here who would do this would be supposed to do .
Considering just that (I believe , from my understanding of what you have said .) you have not been tried yet , and could be back inside ~ is it a great idea to create enemies for you there ?
Also ,
How would we do so , anyway ? Especially the one who (Again , if I read it correctly , as with all here .) is incarcerated now .
Because of my diabetic-ness , blood sugar tests are a frequent thing with me . Was that the type of bst he forced you to take ?
How could he do that ?
I am puzzled .
PeterHoping44 wrote:
Mate, I'm seriously going to stop posting on here unless people quit giving me such a hard time. I've always been a lonely but nice and laid guy person, and I was glad they were a part of my life until we fell out. It's not like I wanted any of this shite to happen. I've never purposefully gone out of my way to annoy anyone. Rather, I think these two women misunderstood me and I maybe did not respect or properly pick up on why they felt that way in the beginning, but it was hurtful to let go. Any support worker worth their salt should have realized I was just needing a helping hand to get over the hurdles. To me, they were in my mind still viewed upon as 'my great workers' and anything considered unreflective of my perception of their character was too much to take in.
It's as I keep saying. People have hurt me a lot over the years, but I don't think badly of them anymore. Like Laura. Yes, she was clearly a tart and a money grabber. Nobody likes getting used, but I do not "hate" her. It's just not in my nature to think horrible thoughts about others, even when they have genuinely screwed me over. But I still hate the way we ended up.
Now, I was in jail with these two in Barlinnie. This prick here made me do a blood sugar test. He thinks the abuse of kids is consensual. Please seek him out and bang him in the nuts for talking such nonsense.
http://theukdatabase.com/2015/06/26/mar ... ortsmouth/
This other dude, well he was sharing a cell with me after the other guy got out, but he is doing a sentence so we were not really meant to be together. It's because he doesn't smoke. He did not like my taste in music. He's a pervert, as you can see.
http://news.stv.tv/tayside/315842-paedo ... daughters/
Right, so these two paedophiles were in a cell with me. Yet I'm not like them at all.
On an unrelated note, my mate Scott no longer resides at the accommodation. Either he moved out or he threw stuff out of the window again, and was giving his marching orders.
With him gone and my very first key worker suffering from MS, it really feels like this is the sad end to a once happy era. Everything changes, however.
It's as I keep saying. People have hurt me a lot over the years, but I don't think badly of them anymore. Like Laura. Yes, she was clearly a tart and a money grabber. Nobody likes getting used, but I do not "hate" her. It's just not in my nature to think horrible thoughts about others, even when they have genuinely screwed me over. But I still hate the way we ended up.
Now, I was in jail with these two in Barlinnie. This prick here made me do a blood sugar test. He thinks the abuse of kids is consensual. Please seek him out and bang him in the nuts for talking such nonsense.
http://theukdatabase.com/2015/06/26/mar ... ortsmouth/
This other dude, well he was sharing a cell with me after the other guy got out, but he is doing a sentence so we were not really meant to be together. It's because he doesn't smoke. He did not like my taste in music. He's a pervert, as you can see.
http://news.stv.tv/tayside/315842-paedo ... daughters/
Right, so these two paedophiles were in a cell with me. Yet I'm not like them at all.
On an unrelated note, my mate Scott no longer resides at the accommodation. Either he moved out or he threw stuff out of the window again, and was giving his marching orders.
With him gone and my very first key worker suffering from MS, it really feels like this is the sad end to a once happy era. Everything changes, however.
04 Sep 2015, 1:30 pm
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07 Sep 2015, 9:04 am
...Yes 
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So um, what's up with this? Are they screwing me around?[/quote]
