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20 Sep 2016, 3:00 am

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I'm guessing the one said that because she was leaving the company and I said I'd miss her.
That's how. Say nice things like that. Girls like niceness (but don't be a sycophant).


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20 Sep 2016, 4:38 pm

I'm not sure the so though. I'm one of the sweetest , kind and romantic guy people have meet but no girls liked me



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20 Sep 2016, 7:49 pm

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I'm not sure the so though. I'm one of the sweetest , kind and romantic guy people have meet
Yes you are and that's why she'll like you.


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21 Sep 2016, 4:20 pm

Doesn't seem to make up for being ugly, non manly, and poor



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21 Sep 2016, 5:42 pm

You're not ugly.


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22 Sep 2016, 12:05 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
You're not ugly.


0.o not what women say



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22 Sep 2016, 6:12 pm

Sly.....you have to not give a rat's ass what certain woman think.

You really do.

Otherwise, you'll never get anywhere.



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22 Sep 2016, 8:24 pm

Buts its not just certain women it's well women
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How can I Inore that?

In real word some people are ugly and that can't be changed not everyone can be attractivr



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22 Sep 2016, 8:27 pm

But you're not ugly.



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23 Sep 2016, 8:02 am

I concur :)


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24 Sep 2016, 12:35 am

Guys don't really have the ability to tell what women find attractive



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24 Sep 2016, 9:37 am

Sure they do. Even straight men.



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25 Sep 2016, 4:24 pm

Tens of thousands of women think I'm ugly.
I'm not wanting to date guys I'm into women so that's all tha matters is what women think



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08 Oct 2016, 6:35 am

Tens of thousands? It couldn't be that many could it?


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08 Oct 2016, 6:45 am

To be honest this probably was a missed opportunity more than anything else, you could have enjoyed seeing a ball game and talked to your crush. But I think it probably is also an important lesson for yourself in the future, would be not to always let anxiety get in the way of your fun and also when opportunities like this come to maybe have a conversation with your crush don't always let them slide.



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09 Oct 2016, 4:24 am

I dont know I'm out of my zone normally at such events. Senserory overload with al, the people and loud sounds. Then there's the lady I like with her friend, her sister who doesn't seem to like me, and hr sisters friend. I'd have to squeezed past them real close.