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07 Nov 2016, 12:14 pm

Screw, the people who hate him. I don't really read any patronizing in his posts. He just seems like a good person to me. He doesn't mean to so Hating him after he leaves, is like hating someone for being themselves, when they move. It's completely pointless. That's what I have to say about it. He had a lot of interesting posts. He is just trying to be himself he left, most likely because of what your doing right now. You're saying he is a bully, but doing the same to him, when he is just trying to be himself. Do you not realize this? This is why I think you all should not do this. It's called being AUTISTIC. For a reason. He's blunt because he can't help it. Not because, He is trying to bully you. That's the reason people look up to him, He isn't afraid of others. Much like me. I don't care if people dislike me it isn't going to stop me. I'm disappointed by you. He left, because people where bullying him for no reason. There was a old thread titled fnord, Where members were trying to get him banned. Which is most likely the reason he left. He was a source of light for the reasons who are blunt. You obviously don't understand how you people are the reason why he left.


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07 Nov 2016, 12:46 pm

Just because you don't see something, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.


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07 Nov 2016, 2:05 pm

smudge wrote:
Just because you don't see something, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
It doesn't matter intention matters more than act. You obviously don't understand that, so This conversation is over, INTENTIONS matter more than WHAT IS ACTUALLY said. Hating someone because their blunt on accident on wrongplanet is like trying to ride a bike without wheels. It just ridiculous. tbh You're in my opinion, Bullying doing so. You realize your preventing non existing bullying by being guess what? A Bully. You realize that right. You're bullying someone for something that isn't meant. And what's worse is you know you're doing it.


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07 Nov 2016, 2:40 pm

Pieplup wrote:
smudge wrote:
Just because you don't see something, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
It doesn't matter intention matters more than act. You obviously don't understand that, so This conversation is over, INTENTIONS matter more than WHAT IS ACTUALLY said. Hating someone because their blunt on accident on wrongplanet is like trying to ride a bike without wheels. It just ridiculous. tbh You're in my opinion, Bullying doing so. You realize your preventing non existing bullying by being guess what? A Bully. You realize that right. You're bullying someone for something that isn't meant. And what's worse is you know you're doing it.


smudge wrote:
Just because you don't see something, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.


i.e. Just because you didn't see him bully others, it does not mean he didn't. I can tell a bully from just being autistic, so can the others commenting in this thread.

A girl at school used to bully me and was lovely to everyone else, even one of the teachers told me I shouldn't have been cold to her, even though my teacher didn't see what was going on. The same thing is happening here.


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07 Nov 2016, 3:16 pm

I've described Fnord as a prickly type of character, that grew a lot since I joined WP.



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07 Nov 2016, 3:21 pm

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I think saying this when he isn't here isn't good IMO. It would be better if you had actually said this when he is still here.


I did, a few times.

In all honesty, it was more the responses on here that got me typing that out. Even though I should expect it from people by now, it never ceases to amaze me how people will look up to a bully. No matter how much they discuss how they hate bullies, someone acts like one and because they act that they're better, people believe it. I just can never get past that.

Having said all of that though, honestly, truly, I think he was part of this place. He didn't add hopes and dreams to people here like everyone is making out (which is so saccharine), but he certainly made this place interesting.



I did think he was harsh but lot of times I thought he was frank and said things the way it is and I have seen him be supportive before. He was more on the logic side and sometimes being logical can make someone come off as cold.


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07 Nov 2016, 3:31 pm

Pieplup wrote:
smudge wrote:
Just because you don't see something, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
It doesn't matter intention matters more than act. You obviously don't understand that, so This conversation is over, INTENTIONS matter more than WHAT IS ACTUALLY said. Hating someone because their blunt on accident on wrongplanet is like trying to ride a bike without wheels. It just ridiculous. tbh You're in my opinion, Bullying doing so. You realize your preventing non existing bullying by being guess what? A Bully. You realize that right. You're bullying someone for something that isn't meant. And what's worse is you know you're doing it.



Sometimes it's not about intentions that matter, it's behavior that matters. For example if someone acts controlling or abusive because they have PTSD or Bipolar or BPD, or OCD or anxiety disorder or an ASD, the victim doesn't care about their intentions, they only care about how they made them feel (I find this to be a human thing). What I like to call it is unintentional abuse and I believe there is such thing as unintentional bullying. Someone can be a bully and not realize it. Someone can be abusive and not mean to be. But most people, including those with an ASD, will not accept that behavior in someone.


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07 Nov 2016, 5:45 pm

Pieplup wrote:
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but there are others on these forums who I cannot read, as they take away my hope in living.

Me?

NO! :flower:

Me? I'm pretty good at writing. Do you mean that emotionally?

am referring to the social darwinists here who marginalize me.



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08 Nov 2016, 1:04 am

I hate to say this, Pieplup, but you're too young to understand Fnord's divisiveness, derision, and holier-than-thou scorn. He's really a miserable person who gets his kicks from negating people. Very often, when he's proven wrong, he simply abandons a thread like he'd never posted in it. That's been his M.O. for years. Yes, I get his bluntness as being autism-related, but his inaccuracies aren't, and believe me, he knows better.



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08 Nov 2016, 1:32 am

now i'm kinda curious what the fuss is all about. i guess that's all mostly from before i started posting (which was earlier this year, despite having created my account in 2012). i remember most of the people who have commented in this thread so far as individual people, but if it weren't for the countdown thing, i think i wouldn't have noticed him

i only noticed too late that i missed my opportunity to freeze my account at 1234 posts :(


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08 Nov 2016, 1:36 am

anagram wrote:
now i'm kinda curious what the fuss is all about. i guess that's all mostly from before i started posting (which was earlier this year, despite having created my account in 2012). i remember most of the people who have commented in this thread so far as individual people, but if it weren't for the countdown thing, i think i wouldn't have noticed him

i only noticed too late that i missed my opportunity to freeze my account at 1234 posts :(

why would you wanna do that? have any of us offended you? :(



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08 Nov 2016, 1:42 am

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why would you wanna do that? have any of us offended you? :(

nah, if someone has, i don't remember it. and you certainly haven't, you can rest assured of that

i just like the number... :P

i guess people here tend to stick to their accounts, but on the other website i came from, most veteran posters weren't posting under their original name anymore. it was a common but unspoken thing that not everybody noticed. maybe it happens here too and i haven't noticed yet? who knows


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08 Nov 2016, 1:43 am

Ah c'mon, this place is a shill-congregation for judgementalism with exclusionist ideals.
Poor some, have never been but those, sneaky us-only tactics, fnord wasn't backstabbing afaik and not hiding intentions neither.



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08 Nov 2016, 1:51 am

anagram wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
why would you wanna do that? have any of us offended you? :(

nah, if someone has, i don't remember it. and you certainly haven't, you can rest assured of that

i just like the number... :P i guess people here tend to stick to their accounts, but on the other website i came from, most veteran posters weren't posting under their original name anymore. it was a common but unspoken thing that not everybody noticed. maybe it happens here too and i haven't noticed yet? who knows

I like neat numbers also. :) now and then somebody will get tired of their old WP ID or lose their password or who knows what else and reincarnate as another identity here.



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08 Nov 2016, 6:16 pm

Please bear in mind that Fnord has stated he will still visit the site, and therefore it seems likely that he will read this thread.

He has made this thread "about" his time on WrongPlanet, knowing that he was a polarising figure, so I think it's fair to expect a degree of personal criticism, but try to remain civil.