hurtloam wrote:
I think that loneliness is making me I'll. I just watched a video about how loneliness weakens your immune system.
I'm a mess. I can't seem to draw close to people. I want to be loved, but I'm not lovable enough. I've met loads of great guys, but they always overlook me and go for someone else instead.
I just feel like no matter how much I try to be a better person I'll never be good enough for anyone to love and I hate that about myself.
Easier said than done I know but maybe you should just think "f**k it" and "f**k them", and that although it would be nice, you don't need it, as long as you have friends and family who love you as you are. You should only try and be a better person for you're benefit, not anyone else's. Truth is, people are just out for what they can get, only interested when they are getting what they can out of ya and then will leave ya until they want something again and figure that people who let them before will do so again. That or they are so shallow it's a wonder they can breathe. Hopefully the person they deem to be "better looking" knocks them back or plays them at their own sh***y game
They usually end up getting married. And they're not playing a game. Not all the women they married were better looking either. You're making assumptions which doesn't help.