Why can’t I just be loved for who I am?

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It's a personal opinion, but I tend to not talk with guys who have photos with very hot girls because I consider they are showing what kind fo woman they like and as I'm far from that, and I guess most of woman in those sites are (although I'm not sure if they mind).

online dating is really flawed. i talk about that on my topic about it, on how i felt bad that guys who were way beyond me looks wise were giving me attention and it felt like i was taking advantage. i don't know. don't measure your value for that. try photos with more neutral faces, maybe write a profile? tell what you like, even games maybe you can find girls who are into game. i started playing rpg so i was liking all guys who mentioned rpg because i thought we could talk about it. i know it is listed as your interest but writing make it more personal i guess. you can even write that think about wanting a more carefree relationship too, don't put it in a way it will sound as only hook up but like you want someone to form a bond with and share happy and light moments and have fun, explore what is your idea of fun and so on.

You can’t see rest of the profile without signing in but I have more, but looks and money is all that matters and I have neither.

https://m.imgur.com/a/8IFMWCi

Here’s example of what most women have on their profile in some way or another
She matched with me

“I have a good life and I have my s**t together looking for someone honhad same drive to do great in life”

I don’t and never will have my s**t together.

Late bloomers? I’ve wanted gf since 11 so if anything I was a early bloomer.

I described what I mean. I’ll repost it though
What I mean is naive, never experienced it, spontaneous, playful and lots of sex relationship that most people had when in their teens or 20s and by 30s and alter don’t want.
A youthful childish relationship. Like one I see teens and 20 olds having all the time, known I’ll never get to.

I’ve seen old people’s relationships and what older women say they want and it’s boring and serious.

Ones better then non. I’m 21 sooner I be 32 and alone forever, you probably find another, never known a woman who doesn’t, women at work jump from one to another in less then a week. Usually with a guy at work. Never me I’m worthless they don’t even talk to me, no they date the guys going to college or moving on to full time real job eventually.

https://www.okcupid.com/profile/sly2792004

I think I’ll be dead before 33.

I don’t have any friends, I never leave my house as I have no one to do things with.
Judging from the pictures women on dating sites are using professional photos or some kind of photo enhancing tech.
Value is measured by those who have what you want, be it women for dating or employers for work. Most women want a guy with his life together who’s attractive and anyone who’s not is worthless to them