scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now?

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26 May 2007, 10:30 pm

Yes, if you tell your family then it should make things easier, your parents will be able to help you deal with it. My family understood me a lot more when they found out about AS, so they recognised that I wasn't just being deliberately awkward etc. You should tell your mum/dad that you think you need to go to see the doctor or that you want help. Or you could just show them a website on either of those things and ask what they think about it.
EDIT: this was to aspie17



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26 May 2007, 10:30 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
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Can I go higher than +10?

If not, +10 then. I had the most wonderful day ever.

Tim


really what happened :P


I met someone today.

Tim


ohhh do tell



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26 May 2007, 10:31 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Can I go higher than +10?

If not, +10 then. I had the most wonderful day ever.

Tim


really what happened :P


I met someone today.

Tim


Presumably, a bit more than just meeting
a random person?

Get your butt over to the L&D section, and start a post.
We want gossip!



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26 May 2007, 10:31 pm

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If you want, or need, the diagnosis, then you should see a doctor. Again, why don't you want to see a doctor?


how do i tell my family about this


Tell them honestly. If you feel comfortable telling them exactly what you think is wrong, do that too, so they know that you have a specific reason. If you don't feel comfortable telling them that yet, that's ok too. If you act like this in real life too, chances are that they probably all ready realize that you may be having some problems and won't object very much, if at all.


they do realise somtings wrong but there in denile about it and normaly say that its just the autism



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26 May 2007, 10:34 pm

i try to hide stuff like depression and suicidal thougths from them aswell



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26 May 2007, 10:34 pm

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they do realise somtings wrong but there in denile about it and normaly say that its just the autism


Then the best way to handle it would be see a doctor first, however you can manage that, and then tell them what it is. I get the denial bit, my father was great at that. "How can my exquisite genetics result in anything less than perfection?" Yeah, not like he's anywhere near perfect, but that's the best I could figure as to what was going on.



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26 May 2007, 10:37 pm

aspie17 wrote:
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If you want, or need, the diagnosis, then you should see a doctor. Again, why don't you want to see a doctor?


how do i tell my family about this


Tell them honestly. If you feel comfortable telling them exactly what you think is wrong, do that too, so they know that you have a specific reason. If you don't feel comfortable telling them that yet, that's ok too. If you act like this in real life too, chances are that they probably all ready realize that you may be having some problems and won't object very much, if at all.


they do realise somtings wrong but there in denile about it and normaly say that its just the autism


Ah. My parents play the it's-just-part-of-being-a-teenager card. I know what you mean.

If you can't convince them - absolutely cannot, 100% - could you ask them to let you see a pyschologist just in general, without bringing up any specific problems? The pyschologist would be able to dx you with other things, and then they would have to face it. If you can't even get them to do that, then you really should talk with your guidance counseler at school (I assume you're not homeschooled). Having an offical adult break talk to them may open them up to the possibilites.


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26 May 2007, 10:38 pm

aspie17 wrote:
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shadexiii wrote:
If you want, or need, the diagnosis, then you should see a doctor. Again, why don't you want to see a doctor?


how do i tell my family about this


Tell them honestly. If you feel comfortable telling them exactly what you think is wrong, do that too, so they know that you have a specific reason. If you don't feel comfortable telling them that yet, that's ok too. If you act like this in real life too, chances are that they probably all ready realize that you may be having some problems and won't object very much, if at all.


they do realise somtings wrong but there in denile about it and normaly say that its just the autism

You could try explaining to them that someone else has suggested this might be what you have. They may be more likely to take it seriously then.



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26 May 2007, 10:40 pm

i see a psychytrist in 2 weeks anyway but i dont think i can talk to anyone about this it was almost imposible on the phone i dont think i can talk about this again



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26 May 2007, 10:41 pm

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i see a psychytrist in 2 weeks anyway but i dont think i can talk to anyone about this it was almost imposible on the phone i dont think i can talk about this again


Can you write down what you're feeling? That may be easier, just to present it in a written format. If not, what about showing him/her what you've written here? It's a start at least.


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26 May 2007, 10:41 pm

-1. I drew and painted a bit so my mood is going up a little bit. I was supposed to go to a friend's house but it didn't happen so it brought me down again.



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26 May 2007, 10:42 pm

If you can get his (or her?) number, try to call the psychiatrist on your own and say you would like to be seen earlier. That should work. Getting your parents to be ok with it, well, the doctor might be willing to talk to them after you talk with the doctor.



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26 May 2007, 10:44 pm

RainSong wrote:
Can you write down what you're feeling? That may be easier, just to present it in a written format. If not, what about showing him/her what you've written here? It's a start at least.


Definitely a good idea. Writing it down can really be helpful.

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-1. I drew and painted a bit so my mood is going up a little bit. I was supposed to go to a friend's house but it didn't happen so it brought me down again.


er...keep...drawing and painting? I really got nothing right now. At least it helped some.



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26 May 2007, 10:51 pm

3. I have a heck of a headache - compliments of staring at the computer for too long, which I've known since it first started coming up - and neither of my friends is coming. It's almost midnight, and I'm going to bed. Good night all.


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26 May 2007, 10:59 pm

Kilroy wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Can I go higher than +10?

If not, +10 then. I had the most wonderful day ever.

Tim


really what happened :P


I met someone today.

Tim


ohhh do tell


I met Raylynn from WP.

Tim


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26 May 2007, 10:59 pm

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