scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now?

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What happened?



Same question.

Just body issues and whatnot. I don't like how I let my looks make me feel sad.

There's nothing wrong with the way you look though.
You are the only person who thinks there is.

Well..wow.. that's a bit of a tough one. If you don't like that your opinion of your appearance upsets you, I guess that could be viewed as a starting point? Plenty of people here have told you that your opinion on your appearance is incorrect, no, flat out wrong. (Hah, an instance where opinions can be wrong, and being wrong isn't a bad thing! That's doubly confusing...) I guess...consider the opinions of them along with your own? And that definitely means leave out little snots that call you names at school. I think everyone already talked about that little runt.

Its hard to say anything on this. "I feel bad because I'm letting this other thing make me feel bad." From that, the only solution that makes any sense to me would be stop letting your opinion of your appearance get to you. Well, to do that, you need to improve your opinion, make it more positive. Easier said than done, but put value in what others here have said about how you look. That might help get you started.

Starbuline-looks wize
you have nothing to worry about
you re very attractive
I'm being honest here, not sugar coating

Chloé.

I discovered i really want a relationship with her but i f****d up and behave too much like the 'oh so good friend'.
I even made it easy for her by saying i'll be her best friend whatever happens.
She's cuddles against me and caresses my hand and other things so clearly that even I am fully sure she doesn't just see me as a good friend.
So even though she strictly told me she can't leave him for me as she still loves him too much, she gives me an overdose of clear signals.
Afterwards, she goes home and f***s her boyfriend. (literally)
I'm so f*****g confused by this and makes me want to both hit and caress her.
If i would ask her about her feelings towards me again, she would answer the same she did last time.
"I can't leave him for you." But yet, she'll do the same stuff she does now and did before.

f**k man, now i know why so many songs go about love, it's an endless inspiration.

The "You're such a sweet guy..." thread in the Love and Dating forum sure gave me some enlightenment.
Good friends get run over while the a**holes take over.
I'm going to be a bit more selfish from now on.
Even if it means i'll have to stop being so fully honest with her.


@Starbuline, i know it isn't that easy but if you act/are more confident about your looks, you'll be more handsome.
Self-confidence is very important in how people judge your looks.

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1. I'm feeling all anxious because I'm deciding if I should binge or not. I got a new pair of jeans finally, and they fit but they would feel more comfortable if I didn't feel so bloated in them.
Or maybe it's because I'm on my period.

Probably the latter reason. I always feel 20 pounds heavier when I'm on my period. And you look fine - don't worry about your weight.

don't binge!
drinking never solves anything!
your great how you look
your not big AT ALL!
your very good looking
(I'm just saying)

No. It just makes the cycle worse.

Then I won't.


Kilroy- I was talking about food binging, not alcohol binging.

8
I actually feel alright. Yay!
And I made another video of Flo. Yay!

Down to 5.5 now.
Just remembered it's my birthday this week but I have no one to spend it with.

food binging is wonderful
I mean you wanna eat a bucket of chicken well-all the power to ya
somedays I can eat so much
just brush your teeth afterwards
to protect them

No. Food binging is bad, especially if you're going to feel bad about it later.

No because she'll feel bad about it afterwards and starve herself. It's a bad thing.