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08 Aug 2011, 8:33 pm

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I'm trying to think of alternatives to suicide. Does anyone know? Suicide is a way for someone to escape every problem in their life. It dosen't really sound that bad to me.



I have had a fantastic job, lost it due to a heart attack when i was 24 years old sence then i've lost my home my car, my family, i've come close so many times to takeing my own life but each time i think is there a point to ending it. i slowly clawed my way to a crap job that i only make about 9k a year on a good year. but i've upgraded from a cardboard box to a tin box though i have no floors it is better than nothing. yet i'm still here. what you need to do is find something to live for. i myself decided years ago that i wasn't going to let this country's lack of medical care to distroy what was left of my life. that was 7 years ago. now i'm dieing my heart is failing. though depressed i still have found reasons not to take my life. there are things out there you will never be able to get good advice trust me on that. but if you want to live you will find them. it could be something stupid to others like i wanna see what the new wave of computers or games or something comeing out will be.
it could also be your family and friends that keeps you alive. maybe your obsessed with yourself and think your better. it don't matter the reason but you will find it. if you look. peace out.



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09 Aug 2011, 3:27 am

Suicide is death. So, basically, you have three options: life, zombification and a persistent vegetative state.


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10 Aug 2011, 1:07 pm

Some way out of the depression, or the feeling of hopelessness could be to change your desires. I try to do this when i get bad, I think what is the cause of me feeling bad and then try to neutralise it. For example, if I am feeling bad I don't have a job then i start to think that I don't want a job anyway and don't feel so bad. Also distracting myself with special interests will get me through the worst. If all that fails I go to bed and don't get up until the thoughts are gone.



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11 Aug 2011, 7:00 pm

I am in my 50's. I can think of times in my past when I briefly thought about suicide. I can think of many, many joys that I have experienced since then that I would have missed out on. The original poster is 19. Benefit from my experience. There are always alternatives to suicide. They may not seem worthwhile to you now, but they are. You will realize that later, in hindsight.

Cockney Rebel's words: "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem." Quoted For Truth.

Also, I agree with whoever posted on this thread that suicide makes it more likely that others you care about might do it after you do. This has happened many times in the past.


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30 Oct 2011, 5:42 pm

You can always fake it.



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30 Oct 2011, 10:32 pm

The only alternative to suicide that works for me:

Get angry with the world and refuse to give in.



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29 May 2013, 4:54 pm

You don't need too sluiced just stop living.
Find the way to shut it al down.



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29 May 2013, 10:04 pm

This thread is from 2010-2011.

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29 May 2013, 10:25 pm

There’s always the alternative of just slowly wasting the rest of your life.


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29 May 2013, 11:02 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
There’s always the alternative of just slowly wasting the rest of your life.

Speaking of wasting away, here's a song I find strangely uplifting. If I ever have to waste away the declining years of my life, the Florida Keys is where I'd prefer to do it, high cost of living be damned. Nothing like tropical weather, slow pace of day-to-day living, limitless access to alcohol, cheap cigarettes, low taxes, delicious seafood, and peaceful "he's weird but he's got a good heart" attitudes to soothe away the misery of what the NT society calls "life". Or what's left of it.[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQc2qCfj1Yg[/youtube]



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29 May 2013, 11:18 pm

Getting stoned and listening to music or doing something to occupy the mind is one I find fairly reliable, either that or there is always the psych ward which I've found necessary before makes it significantly harder to attempt suicide.


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10 Jun 2013, 7:26 am

I have thought of suicide but I would feel terrible leaving my family grieving. Instead, I self harm. I purposely bruise myself or make myself bleed and over the next week I watch the wound heal slowly. Watching a bruise heal or a cut heal makes me feel alive somehow.
All my pain inside I transfer it to that area of physical injury and I can blame every thing on that one spot and watching it heal reassures me I will get better. I have to self harm a lot but watching different injuries heal is better somehow. No one knows I self harm. I want people to know but I don't, I don't know what I really want.


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10 Jun 2013, 9:55 am

sometimes I wish I could tell people my feels, sometimes I feel trapped in my head



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10 Jun 2013, 11:11 am

For me it helps to get out and do something, anything, such as take a walk outside, go to the store, be around people (even if I am not the most social person it helps quite a bit) and to go a little past my comfort zone and then feel proud of myself (meet new people for example).


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10 Jun 2013, 11:16 am

Luntan wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
The main reason, I believe what your seeing - the narcissism, the unbridled self-intrestest and sheistiness, that's not just a human characteristic, its animal, its characteristic of anything living. Its genetics, the favoritism is eugenics, its our genes and the fragile structure that we're built upon having its way with us.


A biologistic approach to psychology is not very nice. We are more than animals. The most important things in society and our lives can't be related back to the animal kingdom.. Ideas, ideals, music, faith etc. If there's anything people are genetically predispositioned to do it is to get together and solve problems, but that's as far as my biologistic thinking goes.

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Ultimately the world being the way it is is no ones fault and there's no government system that could ever fix this, you could perhaps get a strong global leader with the power to 'make the trains run on time' but while I think you like expediency in helping the suffering I don't think you'd want the reality of it, ie. brown-shirts gone wild.


I think this is very much an american misconception. The idea that any restrictions or rules to how we conduct business, no matter how well thought through, are bad, or that taxes are supposedly immoral.
I'm swedish myself and we never went that route, and hopefully we never will. We're not communist, but we've established a Keynesian economy.

It doesn't really matter in this discussion but here's the deal. If you put the money needed on special education for children with Asperger Syndrome and quit clumping them together with down-syndrome kids etc. If they get the chance to hone their skills and also make up for their weak sides, they are going to be able to walk out in life and manage themselves, be productive, and pay tax too. So it's really a matter of sound social investment when you lift resources and put them on aspies, because they will return it.

What I meant with my post was not so much economics and politics, but there you go. I meant that Aspies shouldn't regard themselves as a problem when they are not. Neither should they think they have to adapt so much. If a work- or social environment just contains people who think and act the same, then it's a really crappy environment. Also, such places aren't ultimately reasonable to begin with and their codes aren't set in stone. Bring forth an aspie and you have more ideas circulating. Also bring a bigger number of women on top positions, more immigrants etc. This is eugenics of ideas, and that's a good thing. It doesn't mean that anyone is sorted out but that more different people = more ideas. The good ideas survive, the social/work environment evolves while nobody is singled out.

In essence, an aspie shouldn't feel suicidal over the fact that he can't go into social situations on the exact same terms as others. If he's got track of the basic good manners then that's enough. We shouldn't ever feel like we should go and hide just because we "totally weirded sombody out". That's crazy.
If we judge ourselves as something of less worth then we're also ruining humanism and help replacing it with something considerably more nasty, social darwinism, and who wants to be guilty of that?


"A simpler life and yes that sounds wonderful." 8)


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09 Oct 2015, 6:45 am

well... either selection chooses you or it doesn't... why suffer through to the end?
society doesn't see suicide as a problem, and the Americans probably just think its "loosing dead weight" and maybe they are right... I am two years from my 30s and am STILL working my ass off at jobs that only MIGHT be a stepping stone and still a kissless virgin already blacklisted from the gene pool. and the the depression is not going away anytime soon. I have very little wealth to go back to school, and with the rate technology is changing once I enter school, the training I get will be obsolete by the time I have my degree. I can make people happy, one small levels for a short time, but int the end, i am the clown that makes others happy while being very sad. I mean... I have installed those solar panels on Mom's house, giving her free power now. At least I can say I left her with that. My older sister was always the strongest and most capable of us, and she didn't end up with aspergers like I did, she can be normal, she is worth it. what I do have, goes to her. things just keep teetering on badto okay,t hen bad again, sometimes worse. at least this way I would be with Dad again....