done just done could really use a hug.

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22 Jun 2014, 7:09 am

They don't want to be understood. Once you know that, everything else is like gravy. All we could do is try out best.



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22 Jun 2014, 11:04 pm

Well it seems not only am i sexist but I am also a rapist.

Those few times I hugged, held hands, or kissed without asking. they seemed so happy but I guess I raped them :(

why do people inst that I live. :'(



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22 Jun 2014, 11:27 pm

is there a way to cut onself without feeling pain?



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22 Jun 2014, 11:31 pm

sly279 wrote:
is there a way to cut onself without feeling pain?


No. It's a bad idea. For many reasons.

Don't be bummed about the rape debate. It's just politics.



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22 Jun 2014, 11:34 pm

Ann2011 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
is there a way to cut onself without feeling pain?


No. It's a bad idea. For many reasons.

Don't be bummed about the rape debate. It's just politics.


but it hurts and most my knifes are too dull or unlean to cut skin. maybe a razor blade or burning.



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22 Jun 2014, 11:40 pm

I correct people's grammar in my head because it's not socially acceptable and I know I'll get crap if I actually say anything about it. Got into hot water for that on a different forum a few years ago. But it really bothers me.
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If someone types with bad spelling, spacing, punctuation, word choice, etc., I receive the immediate impression that they're very young and naive. Honestly, if I see people arguing and one (or both) of them types awfully, it detracts from their argument.

Even if I know you're in your 20s, 30s, etc., I might visualize you as a young kid. It happens a lot. It even happens with people I like.

But, I just have to hold my tongue. I mean fingers.



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23 Jun 2014, 9:54 am

Cmon Sly, you didn't rape anybody! I think you know that!

I'm hoping it's a sarcastic response to what's being said in the Gender Wars.



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23 Jun 2014, 10:07 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Cmon Sly, you didn't rape anybody! I think you know that!

I'm hoping it's a sarcastic response to what's being said in the Gender Wars.


no it isn't I am really quite confused by the conflicting ideals, between what they say and must be true, yet how I feel about myself.

I cut a litte, no blood as the nife isn't sharp and hurt, razor blade next time maybe or burning. I deserve to be punished I suppose.I mostly resist but i gave in last night. small in a spot people won't notice and it heals away.

I guess thats the difference between others who cut, they leave marks, seems they want people to know. only i know where the cut came from. over a year ago I heated up metal and burnt, it was more standable.

it seems the banning is being pushed forward, suppose it is up to alex though. Should probably prepare for being completely alone again.

today was my last day at work til September, made worse by there being this super pretty fun girl, so depressing.
really quite perfect woman it would seem,
general rule though is I find pretty=too good for me. but those I don't find pretty I can't be romantic with.

probably for the best though



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23 Jun 2014, 11:50 pm

helped some



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23 Jun 2014, 11:55 pm

They won't ban you.



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25 Jun 2014, 12:21 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
They won't ban you.


well not yet, but once they get their way they will. I can not prevent nor foresee my emotional outbursts. it is an unplanned deep sadness usually after being rejected yet again. I don't have the best writing at my best, at my worst it is horrible. I will not be able to write politically correct.

but he what Iv'e seen or experiences doesn't mean anything, as it isn't what they've seen and only what they know is right.

got to wait for it to heal then might cut again. though it is a rare event that I let down.



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25 Jun 2014, 8:58 pm

There's a 99.9999999999 percent possibility that you won't get banned--

unless you get stupid, and start blatantly insulting people, women, etc.

I don't mean subtly--I mean blatantly--like constantly saying that all women are whores.



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25 Jun 2014, 10:47 pm

So, what exactly happened that might lead to Sly getting banned?



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26 Jun 2014, 12:11 am

Nothing.....that's my point.

Unless he started talking about killing women or something.



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26 Jun 2014, 12:37 am

No, I mean, what caused him to think he is?



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26 Jun 2014, 12:49 am

He's afraid he might inadvertently make a sexist remark. People are really splitting hairs here.