Tried to kill myself but failed

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29 Dec 2015, 2:02 am

Kyle Katarn wrote:
All right sentinel, change the title of this thread to "Tried to kill myself but failed".

Also edit the first post: remove the goodbye from it.


done. 8)


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29 Dec 2015, 2:32 am

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The fact that you're still here posting is a good sign. It means you still have a strong desire to survived. Hang on to that! You've got many great experiences ahead of you!

No it isn't. He's abusing us with threats of violence in order to elicit an emotional response. He should get real help or shut up. This is a support forum, not a suicide hotline.

You definitely should not date anyone if it's the only thing keeping you from suicide. Because it is very likely to fail as most relationships do early on, and what then?


People who feel suicidal often do irrational things like that.

Dating as a cure for depression is a very bad idea, because one has to want to improve himself if he is to improve. External factors will never change any of that, the decision has to come from within.

But I can't help but to empathize with him. I was there many times myself. Hell, I'm just a few steps away from there tonight.

He reached out, and I do not see it as a cry for attention. I see it as a cry for help. There is a difference. Irrational? Perhaps it is. But people who feel that deep and that desperate should never be dismissed. A truly suicidal person should be directed to proper help, I will agree, Internet forums can only do so much for a man in that state.

He and I need the same thing - a solid purpose and meaning to our lives. And it is out there for both of us.

Why am I posting this response to you? I don't know. I just felt like I could not sit by silently in this case, perhaps.



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29 Dec 2015, 2:45 am

AspE wrote:
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The fact that you're still here posting is a good sign. It means you still have a strong desire to survived. Hang on to that! You've got many great experiences ahead of you!

No it isn't. He's abusing us with threats of violence in order to elicit an emotional response. He should get real help or shut up. This is a support forum, not a suicide hotline.

You definitely should not date anyone if it's the only thing keeping you from suicide. Because it is very likely to fail as most relationships do early on, and what then?


Since I've got thick enough skin not to really care anymore what people think of me or even about being outed as HFA I should ask that you speak for yourselves, and for Kyle to accept a reasonable compromise of mandatorily finding more than one reason for life. No matter how alienated I get I can ALWAYS build something.


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29 Dec 2015, 4:23 am

Kiprobalhato wrote:
Kyle Katarn wrote:
All right sentinel, change the title of this thread to "Tried to kill myself but failed".

Also edit the first post: remove the goodbye from it.


done. 8)

Thanks. :)



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29 Dec 2015, 4:26 am

Thanks for handling that, Kip: it was bedtime in my part of the world so I was offline.


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31 Dec 2015, 4:39 am

Thank you all for your support, but I'll stop visiting WP because it distracts me from studying.



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31 Dec 2015, 4:58 am

You can still visit WP, but keep it to certain times so it doesn't distract you. Don't stop visiting altogether if possible!

We know it's difficult to find a balance, and all have to make an effort to fit everything in!


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31 Dec 2015, 5:24 am

I'm similar really in a sense that I don't post because I'm tired when I get home from work.

But you can still come here when you get a break.


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