AspE wrote:
VegetableMan wrote:
The fact that you're still here posting is a good sign. It means you still have a strong desire to survived. Hang on to that! You've got many great experiences ahead of you!
No it isn't. He's abusing us with threats of violence in order to elicit an emotional response. He should get real help or shut up. This is a support forum, not a suicide hotline.
You definitely should not date anyone if it's the only thing keeping you from suicide. Because it is very likely to fail as most relationships do early on, and what then?
People who feel suicidal often do irrational things like that.
Dating as a cure for depression is a very bad idea, because one has to want to improve himself if he is to improve. External factors will never change any of that, the decision has to come from within.
But I can't help but to empathize with him. I was there many times myself. Hell, I'm just a few steps away from there tonight.
He reached out, and I do not see it as a cry for attention. I see it as a cry for help. There is a difference. Irrational? Perhaps it is. But people who feel that deep and that desperate should never be dismissed. A truly suicidal person should be directed to proper help, I will agree, Internet forums can only do so much for a man in that state.
He and I need the same thing - a solid purpose and meaning to our lives. And it is out there for both of us.
Why am I posting this response to you? I don't know. I just felt like I could not sit by silently in this case, perhaps.