Why does it seem like all women successful?

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There has to be something. Everyone is good at something.

But I can’t work full time, which eliminates most everything.
I’m not good at much of any either, I really don’t have a single talent. Guess I’m the definition of a plain average joe.

Is this a troll post? I've known hundereds of down-and-out women. And look at the world around you. Practially all men are better off socially and have a higher status than their female counterparts. How many female presidents have there been? How many self-made billionaire business women are there, compared to men? Not to mention the fact that wherever the law permits it, women are crushed underfoot and treat like slaves or animals. No offense, dude, but I think you need a reality check.

Sly is talking about dating success. And professional success does not always correlate with dating success, especially for women. For example, there are female presidents who have never been married.

Are you equating dating success to overall success though?

The two ladies you mentioned both struggled in dating and have no boyfriends as far as I know. While Sweetleaf, despite claiming she's unemployed, does have a boyfriend.

Yup, you and me are so like-minded!

I'm confused. Sly wasn't talking about dating success, at least not in the beginning. He only mentioned he'd like to find a woman to date who isn't successful (in other areas, e.g. car and job).

^ my job is to confuse you.

No and that may have been true in the past but it’s not anymore atleast not in Oregon. Most mangers and higher ups are women.

As someone pointed out if employers can pay women less why wouldn’t they hire only women and boos their profits?

Why do we poor people care about social inequality among the elite?
A rich woman who’s paid less then a rich man is stil. 100 times better off then a poor man or woman. Average men and women of the majority are equal. I make as much as a woman working retail. Many make more then me and most my mangers are women.
And from dating sites and Facebook most women are working well paid jobs in my area while a lot of men aren’t.
I don’t care that some woman makes 500 million a year while her coworker makes 505 million. I really don’t. And trust that neither of them care about us poor or middle class people.

No it’s about professional success or just success in life in general.
I get rejected constantly and see woman after woman who says I have my life together, I have a good job, car and my own home, etc and say men must have to same to date them. It’s like there’s no unsuccessful women or at least they aren’t looking to date. I’ve only seen two just two on dating sites who said they were unemployed and living with family. And they rejected me too saying they only date men with their life together.

So it really seems like to me in my area it’s only men who are failures at getting their life together.

Does that make me a troll? Wanting to be loved and to find someone in similar situation who hopefully won’t rejct me for being same as them?

But honest there doesn’t seem to be any in my city, seems all the women have good jobs and have their life together besides those two who rejected me too.

It's possible that the women who don't "have their lives together" don't have constant Internet access. So they can't do online dating as well as women who have constant internet access.

It's also possible that the women who supposedly "have their lives together," really don't "have their lives together."

There are plenty of women who are "down on their luck," just like men.

That person shouldn't have accused you of being a "troll."

Nup, you're not a troll, you're just stuck in a loop. I was just confused that a couple of people were saying your post was about something it wasn't.

He said that he is looking for a woman who would not reject him based on his income. And that women with similar income have previously rejected him. This is not surprising at all because, especially for women, dating success is not the same as career success.

There could be thousands of unemployed women in his area and they may reject sly due to his small income, because those women may be very desirable for other reasons. There may be thousands of very unsuccesful women career wise and they still may be successful in dating.


Women are different from men. You should be looking for a woman who is equally successful dating wise, not career wise.

Actually he should be looking for women who are equally unsuccessful in dating AND unsuccessful in career. Like what you said, an unsuccessful woman yet sexually desired by tons of more successful men would still be picky and unlikely to pick sly, there are tons of examples like that in real life.

Sly should do what nick did.

Yellow, we are talking reality, not poetry.

Hey, sorry I haven’t answered in a while. I was away and then dealing with that whole no job thing. Hope your bday was alright.

Just to answer, I don’t drive and there’s a reason cab apps are a thing so it doesn’t bother me if a guy I’m interested in doesn’t drive either or doesn’t have a car. I don’t care either what type of job he has, first thing I’d ask a guy like in a dating app is not “do you have a job?”, but I’d like to know what he enjoys doing and see if by that conversation I’d be interested in meeting him. Maybe all the women you’ve approached are just the wrong ones. Maybe it’s that city. Who knows. I tend to feel like I’m living in the wrong city in terms of dating so I don’t even try, because when I’ve tried nothing good ever came from it.

Musical taste is important to me, some say that’s superficial but to me, I need to know that we’ll have things to talk about. Idk, i think in the end from my point of view, all I want is someone to share my life with, good and bad. But then I don’t really trust anyone which just makes everything difficult. Like, I met this guy at a concert a few days ago and he asked me out (I think) the next day. I said maybe and later on I cancelled. It wasn’t clear to me that the guy really was asking me out so I decided not to go. Next thing he said was “maybe some other time” and well, that’s the last I heard from him.

Those are my goals too. Funny because it seems like one is just asking for something basic and then my closest friend is looking into life insurance and educational savings for her kid and lots of things I can’t even grasp to think about because all I want is financial security provided by myself and a guy to hang with. Funny is both seem so far away for now, so I’m focusing on myself.